Shannon Coronado, Jay Toriko, Ms. Tara Indiana, Me$$ed Up, Dr. Susan Block, Miss Sadie Synn, Miss Freudian Slit, Jacquie Blu, Donald Drumpf. Photo: Jux Lii

Length 1:47:02 Date: July 30, 2016

by Dr. Susan Block

Brothers and Sisters, Democrats and Republicans, Libertarians and Vegetarians, my fellow Americans, Humans, Great Apes and All of My Fellow Animals on Earth: welcome to the Lesser of Three Evils and the Greatest Sexuality Show on Earth! Welcome to the Trumpocalypse, the Clinton Corruptathon, and this amazing show of FemDom politics and fun smack in the middle of this erotic neurotic and kind of psychotic Election Season. USA! USA!

Welcome to the Trumpocalyse. Photo: Sarah Bella

Yes indeed, the DNC is over. They did it better than the RNC. The DNC speakers acted like grown-ups, not big babies or bullies. Nobody mocked anybody for physical disabilities. Nobody called for anybody to be executed by firing squad. Nobody threw the Sieg Heil. Nobody got caught plagiarizing their speeches.

But the Donkeys did copy the Elephants’ awful national anthem, braying, “USA! USA! USA!” exulting in the odious “accomplishments” of America’s biggest export, our bloated, enormously destructive Military-Industrial Complex. Really guys (and gals), it’s vulgar for the richest, most militaristic country on Earth to brag about how rich and militaristic we are. Didn’t your mamas teach you to have a little humility? Well, let Me teach you then: It’s obnoxious, it’s insensitive, and it just might make folks in the countries we’re bombing double-mad at us, maybe even mad enough to sacrifice their lives and their sanity in another terror attack on our civilians. Yikes!  So please: Stop braying “USA!” and bragging about our military might and our soldiers, as if they’re a football team. Feel free to wave your flag, but remember that our brave armed forces are made up of paid volunteers, and it’s really sad when they die and get maimed, but it’s also sad when they kill and maim civilians, and now most of America’s killing and maiming is done not soldiers facing death themselves, but by drones. So please: stop the killing and maiming, America—abroad and at home. And stop bragging about killing. Then maybe the terror will die down, and love will grow, like flowers, on its grave. It’s the Bonobo Way.

Beat Trump with The Bonobo Way.! Photo: Unscene Abe

So no, in the grand scheme, the Democratic Convention was not very bonobo, unless you’re comparing it to that gathering of neo-Nazi dingbats sailing under the flag of Trump University, Steaks and Failed Casinos the week before, in which case I’d have to say that it was downright bonoboësque. Everything is relative, after all, and the Dems did provide a Big Tent. The Bernie-or-Busters may not have been treated like royalty, but they got their say on the international stage, chanting “No More War!” as some military fetishists spoke. Our friend Abby Martin was arrested, which was terrible, but at least she was released within a few hours, and delivered her usual truth-telling reports without further interference.

Though the DNC’s military enthusiasm felt disturbingly ominous, there was not much bigotry. Indeed, a veritable rainbow of colors, genders and faiths graced the DNC stage, not just rabidly angry white men and Stepford Trump wives and daughters dressed in pseudo-virgin white. Many have called Hillary insincere and opportunistic for saying to Bernie supporters “Your cause is my cause.” I don’t disagree, but I do think it’s a lot better than calling them criminals punching bags as Trump calls his opponents and protestors.

The Donald vs. The Bill. Photo: Roberto Bonobo

And it made history. Hillary Clinton is the first woman nominated for President of the United States by a major party, and that’s a major victory for the Bonobo Way right there. But she’s not the first woman to run for president. Victoria Woodhull was the first woman to run for President. Shout-out to our friends at the Woodhull Sexual Freedom Foundation, including Nina Hartley, Danny O’Neill and Reid Mihalko, plus Ecosexuality co-editor SerenaGaia Anderlini D’Onofrio will be going to Woodhull for the first time.

Besides just being a woman, Hillary has one other essential quality: She’s not Trump. So I support her in her efforts to defeat him and what he represents. So do a lot of Republicans, which is nice, but where does that leave the state of the union? The Democrats sound as militaristic as Republicans, and the Republicans have gone off the deep end, possibly heralding the collapse of our two-party system into one, which isn’t exactly democracy. In my view, not only do we need two parties, we should have 12 parties: the Green Party, the Libertarian Party, the Vegetarian Party, the Block Party, the Party like a Bonobo Party and many more, including the Female Supremacy Party.

Which brings me back to this show, which is a kind of party for the Female Supremacy Party, presided over by international super-Dom and U.S. Presidential Candidate Tara Indiana, whipping America back into shape, one middle-aged white man at a time. Not to be racist or anything, but most of today’s world problems are caused by middle-aged and older white men like Big Guns-Small Dick Cheney, George Dubya Pussy-Bush & Donald Short-Fingers Trump.

Ms. Tara collars Trump on DrSuzy.Tv. Photo: Roberto Bonobo

Mistress Tara has been beating men like Donald Trump for 25 years, and that is why, on this historic live broadcast, I give her my support, my bonobo love and my endorsement in her courageous, comedic and kinky run for President of the United States. I’ve known Tara for over a decade, since we met at my Cinekink premiere of Squirt Salon back in 2005, and I can tell you this: she’s strong, she’s smart, she’s female and she’s fierce. But she’s never started or even voted for war like Hillary, and she’s never ripped off her workers like Trump. Ms. Tara is, in many ways, the Donald’s polar opposite, and she embodies the best aspects of Hillary with none of the political baggage: She’s tough, she’s shrewd, she’s dominant, she possesses a pussy, and she can handle being called a cunt and a bitch by enemies and admirers alike.

Back in 1993, I fell in love with Hillary as a Dominatrix as portrayed by Spy Magazine, the same folks who called “The Donald” a “short-fingered vulgarian” when he was first polluting America’s media atmosphere with his proud narcissism. Who cares if that was really Hillary’s body?  It looked and felt real to me. But alas, it was and is not real. Hillary is a war criminal, like many powerful national politicians in this country, not the gentle but firm, sexy, bonoboësque dominatrix that Spy caricature portrayed her to be.

Tara, on the other hand, is a real Dominatrix who can beat Trump and a lot of international blowhards, dick-tators and assholes with small penises and big mouths. As an alpha-Domme, President Tara will beat, gag and humiliate them, but she won’t kill them or bomb their countries. Tara’s election to the highest office in the land will empower fellow Dominas, as well as all kinds of other powerful women, successful businesswomen, politicians, mothers, grandmothers, sex workers and hot MILFS like her. That’s the Bonobo Way of FemDom Power in a Corset.

I endorse Tara on this show because, to be blunt (fire up that blunt!), I like her better than the other major candidates still in play. Maybe not Bernie, but he’s no longer running. As for voting, well, unlike Capt’n Max, who never votes, I sometimes do.  I voted for myself for President in 1992, I voted for the late great Frank Moore in 2008 when I was his running mate, and I’ve voted a few other times, when I feel the stakes are high… at least high enough to risk getting jury duty.

Ms. Tara administers Small Penis Humiliation to her opponent. Photo: Elizabeth Wohldmann

So if it seems like it’s going to be a close contest in California, I will certainly vote for Hillary, and I encourage all American voters to do the same, especially if you’re in swing states, to prevent the dark specter of Trumpism from trumping our democracy, such as it is. But if she’s got a healthy lead in your state, then you could vote Green or Pink or whatever hue matches your view. We’ll see as we get closer to November 8th (Capt’n Max’s birthday!), 2016.

So right now, while Election Day is more than three months off, and after these two conventions of terrible Trumpeting and boastful braying, I am cheerfully endorsing Tara for President on this great show that feels sort of like a kinky political convention, and definitely like a party.  And so to happy cheers, intoxicated applause and fervent cries of “Amen” and “Awomen,” I introduce “the next President of the USA”: Mistress Tara Indiana.

Mistress Tara shows us how to shut up Trump. Photo: Andy Martin

After the usual political pleasantries, we chat about the issues, macro and micro, Trump’s small penis problem, the political value of erotic humiliation (one of her projects is to send 1000 tiny dildos to his office), her plans to decriminalize sex work and marijuana use (promoting the peace and well-being of the populace and creating a ton of jobs), as well as her “enhanced” interrogation techniques that would allow an element of feminine sensuality to such common CIA practices as “anal food rape,” hiring top dominatrices (more jobs created!) as interrogators and torturers.

My other guests, hot Mistresses who also endorse Mistress Tara for President, include the voluptuous (42DD) and clever Miss Freudian Slit and the statuesque (6’5”) and stately Miss Sadie Synn, as well as adorable, androgynous Jay Toriko, and our own Jacquie Blu. Endorsements pour in from Mistress Genevieve (who introduced Tara and me back in 2005) and another favorite DrSuzy.Tv FemDom show guest since 2010, Snow Mercy.

The Womb Room cheers as Ms. Tara shows us exactly how she will “beat Trump” by actually beating, spanking, gagging and trampling upon our Donald Trump surrogate. Some say Trump would enjoy this too much, but that’s okay, as long as he takes his punishments for the harm his narcissistic, bigoted, bullying, babyish, small-penis-anxiety-fueled neo-fascism has already caused this country, and as long as he stays gagged.

Is Trump a better pony ride or president? Photo: Roberto Bonobo

A very bonobo political animal, Tara generously lets us each take a turn at “beating Trump,” including with The Bonobo Way, creating the sort of gal-gal camaraderie that makes bonobo gals “stronger together,” and can win elections. Ms Synn whacks him hard with her big hands and Jay rides Trump like a toy pony, and we all laugh at the fact that this big bully is much better-suited to being a pony ride in an adult amusement park than to being anyone’s Commander-in-Chief. I trample the wannabe Bully-in-Chief. It’s great fun and good sex therapy for the Trumpocalypse, brought to you by the Therapists Without Borders of the Block Institute. Call anytime!

Trampling Trump aka, “Trumpling.” Photo: Roberto Bonobo

Music is a big part of every political convention, including ours. Both the braying Donkeys and Trumpeting Tuskers call out for blessings from “God,” blithely ignoring America’s supposed “separation of Church and State.” So we follow suit, as our very own “Drunk Jesus,” up-and-cumming rapper Me$$ed Up, freestyles his way through Bonoboville before embarking on his big multi-college tour.

Drunk Jesus is Me$$ed Up. Photo: Sarah Bella

Here in the Womb Room, our “religion” includes our ritual of Bonoboville Communion, as well as “waterboarding,” bonobo-style with Agwa di Bolivia Herbal Coca Leaf Liqueur. Volunteering to be the “Altar Girl,” Miss Freudian Slit offers up her fabulous 44DDs for delectable Communions with Me$$ed Up and Jay Toriko. Freudian’s HUGE boobs serve to underline the smallness of Trump’s penis, mind and conscience, as well as to entertain the troops and give comfort to all who look upon them.

We also get the treat of seeing our bombshell bartender, Shannon Coronado, a vision in black and white, pouring the Agwa for the people.

With Shannon, Mistress of the Bar. Photo: Sarah Bella

Though this show is packed with action (not just political hot air!), we also take two calls, first from Chelsea Demoiselle, Dr. Susan Block Institute therapist and our own “bonobo-in-the-field,” responding to my observations about the hate comments from some DrSuzy.Tv listeners and viewers on social media, upset that we’re talking a bit more about politics these days. They would prefer that we just talk about sex. Tune in to hear our advice on how to fight the hate with love, the Bonobo Way.

There’s a lot of emotion in this election, and much at stake in terms of sexual rights. Crazy baby Trump aside, the Republican platform is filled with anti-sex, anti-female goals, such as repealing Roe vs. Wade and Gay Marriage in the Supreme Court, targeting porn-viewing as an “addiction,” and encouraging harmful “conversion” therapy for those attracted to the same sex. So we will keep being political, as well as sexual, throughout this important election season and beyond. If you don’t like it, change the channel to Rush Limbaugh or the Vivid Radio heavy breathers.

The second call comes in from a guy in rural, ultra-conservative Pennsylvania who calls himself “Donald.” I brace myself for an avalanche of expletives excoriating the Female Supremacy Party and the Bonobo Way. Instead, we are gratified to receive another endorsement of Tara for President, proving that there is hope for this great and complex country of ours sprouting up like corn from the Heartland.

When Tara proclaims her willingness to pander to voters, I ask her to put her boobies where her mouth is. She balks at first, saying it’s too much trouble to get her big natural bazoombas out of her buttoned up Presidential shirt and bra, she gives the voters what they want and proceeds to #FreetheNipple(s), whereupon the rest of us follow suit, and oodles of pretty titties and nippies come out, like confetti at a convention.

More spankings and Communions ensue with Jacquie, Jay and the world’s biggest baby/bully, Trumpty Dumpty who takes a great fall, at least on this show, and even gets trampled. It’s great Sex Therapy for the Trumpocalypse, Bonobo-style. Certainly, it release a lot of our frustrations through BDSM and laughter, and we hope it releases yours too.

U.S. Presidential Candidate Tara’s Enhanced Interrogation Team. Photo: Unscene Abe

Highlight of the Afterparty:  Auto-fellatio performed by Jay Toriko! Such talent we have on The Dr. Susan Block Show. Coming soon to Clip-O-Rama.

RƎVO˩utionaries. Photo: Unscene Abe

Up right now: My UC Berkeley talk on The Bonobo Way at the 5th International Conference on the Future of Monogamy and Nonmonogamy. Coming soon: The Bonobo Way of FemDom Power from DomCon LA. This Sunday: I’ll be talking about bonobos, sex, love and peace in beautiful, balmy Laguna Beach the Inner Journey on KX 93.5 FM with Greg Friedman. Catch us if you can sometime this summer. It’s a hot one. Stay bonobo.

© July 31, 2016. Susan Block, Ph.D., a.k.a. “Dr. Suzy,” is a world renowned LA sex therapist, author of The Bonobo Way: The Evolution of Peace through Pleasure and horny housewife, occasionally seen on HBO and other channels. For speaking engagements, call 310-568-0066.

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Length: 90:43 minutes

Date: 07/03/2010

This intellectually arousing, deeply touching show celebrates and investigates our kissing cousins who swing from the trees as well as with each other, the inspiration for the “peace through pleasure” mantra so central to our credo here at the Block Institute: the bonobos.

Talking with us live from the wilds of North Carolina is featured guest Vanessa Woods, Duke University research scientist and author of the wonderful new book Bonobo Handshake.  Having braved the war-torn Congo to work with and care for bonobos at Claudine Andre’s Lola ya Bonobo sanctuary, along with her husband Duke anthropology professor Brian Hare, Vanessa fills us in on why so-called “pigmy chimps,” 98% genetically similar to humans, are truly special animals, in part because of the way they use sex for establishing social relationships, easing stress and resolving conflict.  Indeed, they have never been seen killing each other or making war like common chimps–or humans.

Vanessa and I bond discussing our experiences interacting with bonobos in the wild and captivity, and how these beautiful but fragile animals have won our hearts and souls. What I call the “Bonobo Way” has also deeply influenced my therapy practice and advice to couples on how to resolve interpersonal issues.  Bonobos might even, as Vanessa writes, “hold the key to a world without war.”

After taking questions from the studio audience about topics like the bonobos’ remarkably sensitive responses to the suffering and death of their fellows, Vanessa gives suggestions for how we can help save these precious creatures from extinction by supporting the people and groups that fight for their survival, most notably FriendsofBonobos, through which the Block Institute has “adopted” a bonobo orphan.

After the show, the Speakeasy explodes into a real primal after-party complete with jungle music, jungle juice and ripe bananas…and for once, that’s not a euphemism for dildos. After-parties aside, this is a highly informative, deeply emotional and inspirational show that we hope will encourage understanding of our bonobo brothers and sisters, and peace through pleasure in the world.

So…make like bonobos, not baboons; make love, not war; drop Pocket Rockets not Patriot Missiles; deliver bananas not bombs, and remember that a little hot sex can help cool us all off in the heat of human suffering and conflict.

Caller 1: Vanessa Woods discusses her book Bonobo Handshake and her research on bonobos.

Caller 2: A disabled man gets help coping with his fantasies about his sister who took care of him.

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Need courage, practical ideas & a sense of humor for the coming Trumpocalypse? Check out Dr. Suzy’s 7 Steps to Healing Electoral Dysfunction + #NoProp60 Celebration in Bonoboville + don’t miss “V” Without Violence: Happy Bday Capt’n Max & Happy 2nd Anniversary The Bonobo Way, featuring a galaxy of luminaries, including rawkstars Daniele Watts and Chef Be*LIVE; Rhiannon Aarons, whose magnificent ~ literally take the cake; and “Unlicensed Professionals” Catherine Imperio and Samantha Fairley (both receive Bonobo Way Female Empowerment Outreach Project awards). Also returning to Dr. Suzy’s Speakeasy are Siouxsie Q. James of the Free Speech Coalition for one last push on NoProp60 before winning (!), rapper Ikkor, and “Best Actor” winner Luzer Twersky accompanied by a Loki Films crew doing a Netflix documentary(!) + bonobos Jay Toriko, Jacquie Blu, & Gypsy too! Check out the journal & enjoy the view on DrSuzy.Tv.

Baghead Lady gives it to Trump on DrSuzy.Tv. Photo: B Natural. Artful Censorship by Daniele Watts & Chef Be*LiVE.

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Parent or childfree; New York Times bestselling author Michael Ian Black‘s Dr. Seuss-ish parody picture book, A Child’s First Book of Trump (intended for adults) is perfectly timely for the Trumpocalypse. Need more holiday gift ideas? Shop Block Books online and liberate your inner bonobo with The Simpsons and Philosophy: The D’oh! of Homer (Popular Culture and Philosophy), Sex at Dawn, and Dr. Suzy‘s passionately acclaimed The Bonobo Way, now with over 35 five star reviews!

Handling Electoral Dysfunction, the Bonobo Way. Photo: Zane Bono

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Electoral Dysfunction shocked the world, but this is not the Electoral College’s first push against the popular vote. Remember when Bush took the presidency in 2000?  And THEN what happened? Hop in the Time Machine for: America Wants a Divorce in Dr. Block’s renowned Terror Journals.

Maybe you already know the Three Ways to Live Like a Bonobo, but now, more than ever, it’s time to get the book and start your “12 Steps” from The Bonobo Way: The Evolution of Peace through Pleasure. Learn to release your Inner Bonobo, even under a Trumpanzee regime, and remember that a portion of all proceeds go to help save the wild bonobos from extinction {8(:|).

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by Dr. Susan Block.

An author and a dominatrix grace my sweet 16th Bedside Chat of the Coronapocalypse, but not just any author and not just any Domme.

The brilliant JoAnn Wypijewski joins us for a stimulating discussion of her remarkable new book, What We Don’t Talk About When We Talk About #MeToo: Essays on Sex, Authority and the Mess of Life, that anyone who cares about sexuality and society should read right now.

Then the stunning, stylish and rather sadistic Mistress Courtney zooms in from London to deliver some wicked whipping, shackling, sensuous foot teasing and FemDom philosophy that could teach #MeToo a thing or two about how to put naughty men in their “proper” place.

Mistress Courtney, JoAnn Wypijewski, Sunshine & Me.

Together these ladies, along with the bonobos, help me to open the doors and windows of the Church of #MeToo, airing out the sex-panicked sanctuary with a fresh breeze of insight, passion and mind-blowing sexual revelation.

Roger Stone Unleashed! Free Chelsea & Julian!

Inspired by FDR’s Fireside Chats, my Bedside Chats aim to inform, nurture, inspire and entertain in similarly scary times.

We start with a shout-out to our beloved Bonobo Ana, currently in the hospital. No, it’s not COVID, thank Goddess. She just had some serious surgery and she’s doing astonishingly well.

Getting Corny with Ana & Miguel. Photo: Harry Sapien

Ana Muy Fuerte! We love you!

Then we move onto a little news. The gnarly, nepotistic Narcissist-in-Chief has commuted the prison sentence of his old lover—I mean, friend—of over three decades, Roger Stone.

This has induced much wringing of hands and gnashing of teeth on the right and left. After all, even disgraced President “Tricky Dick” Nixon—whose sneering face is tattooed, with revolting affection, between Stone’s shoulder blades—didn’t try to pull off a trick like this.

 Nixon didn’t give Presidential clemency to the convicted criminals who did his dirty work. But the Trumpus has done just that for the noxious, obnoxious Roger Stone with nary a concern for his integrity since at this point, 1) everyone knows he doesn’t have any integrity, 2) the people who are upset about Stone already despise tRump, 3) his base either doesn’t care or are “energized,” 4) he yearns desperately for Stone’s notorious dirty tricks and silver-tongued flattery to fluff up his flaccid campaign.

Preternaturally Annoying Swinger, & Fascist Jackboot-Licking Gadfly, Roger Stone.

Roger Stone is a lying, preening, fascist jackboot-licking embarrassment to fellow swingers, kinksters, cuckolds and big hat lovers everywhere. I elaborate on this in greater detail in “Roger Stoned and Swinging.”

However, his crimes of lying, threats and obstruction, though vile, are not violent. So, I have no problem with Agent Orange commuting Stone’s sentence if—and this is a HUGE if—we also release ALL nonviolent prisoners from America’s bloated, outrageously unfair, COVID-infected Prison Industrial Complex (PIC).

Let’s start with Chelsea Manning! She exposed violent crimes of the US Military; she didn’t commit any violent crimes. Send her home with a damn ankle bracelet, if you want to spy on her.

And free Julian Assange! Who are we as a people if we let this publisher—who simply published the documents of whistleblowers like Chelsea—die in jail?

Prison is a long-term chokehold. It should be reserved only for the most physically dangerous humans among us.

The Supremes Go Bonobos! How About #MeToo?

In the good news department: The U.S. Supreme Court’s mostly conservative judges chosen by right-wing Presidents are making some great progressive pro-LGBTQ, pro-Dreamers, anti-Trump, pro-Native American and pro-Female rulings.

Hey, hey, it’s the Bonobo Way.

Supreme Court of Bonoboville. Photo: Unscene Abe

Why is The Bonobo Way of female empowerment and male well-being so important for us to understand, especially concerning the #MeToo movement and changing attitudes towards sex?

Ah, sex….

If you recall, back in the fall of 2017, the sweet pussies of the #MeToo “Reckoning” pounced like tigresses on powerful men with grabby hands, many of whom were fired or publicly disgraced for their sins of sex and power and, for the most part, rightfully so.

Meowwww! These pussies have claws.

Sadly, #MeToo did not bring down the Pussy-Grabber-in-Chief, despite him being accused of sexual assault by over 25 women.

This is one reason why I ritualistically whip our tRump effigy’s pink furry balls and tiny mushroom peepee every Saturday night. This time, we have him under gag order with a mask since finally, the Anti-Masker-in-Chief wore one publicly.

And really, it’s such a pleasure and a relief to see that big mouth covered up.

Bonobos are the perfect female empowerment Great Ape paradigm, proving that true “femocracy” is not just a crazy feminist fantasy, but a real, viable way of life

Even though #MeToo never brought down Trumpty Dumpty, it has been a powerful, rather bonoboësque movement for female empowerment throughout the world.

Bonobos are the perfect female empowerment Great Ape paradigm, proving that true “femocracy” is not just a crazy feminist fantasy, but a real, viable way of life, practiced successfully for many millennia by humanity’s closest genetic cousins, the bonobo apes, and maybe even by our prehistoric hunter/gatherer human ancestors.

Like the #MeToo movement, bonobo female solidarity supports female empowerment among bonobos, and one reason for that strong sense of sisterhood is… (wait for it) SEX.

That is, bonobo females have sex with each other, at least as often as they do it with guys. I’m not saying we humans need to have more gal/gal sex (though that’s not a bad idea). I am saying that bonobos show us that being “gay” or bisexual, is as natural and good for the individual and the community as being “straight.”

They’re also pretty polyamorous, kind of like Will and Jada Pinkett Smith with August Alsina, but without the Red Table Drama.

And there’s another key element to the Bonobo Way that the #MeToo movement seems to be missing, and that is male well-neing. I call it #MeToo+. One vital reason rape is relatively rare and murder is non-existent among bonobos is that bonobo males get laid… a LOT.

This is partly because the females often aggressively pursue sex—maybe because they don’t get slut-shamed for it. Horny bonobo males also can have sex with each other (remember, they’re all bi or pansexual). There are no incels in bonobo society. This erotic abundance cools them out, lowering bonobo male hormonal levels of what human culture understands as “toxic masculinity” and elevating their aptitude for love.

Of course, there’s a lot more to it than getting laid. Bonobos exhibit a deep sense of inclusivity, high levels of empathy, many expressions of affection, openness toward strangers, a tendency to reconcile and forgive transgressions after punishment is dispensed (usually by the older females), generosity with food, sharing and caring about even the naughtiest of males.

Whacking the Presidunce for his many Crimes of the Week. Photo: Unscene Abe

I’ve long felt that to keep #MeToo viable, we ought to factor this sense of “male well-being” into the female empowerment equation, like the bonobos do.

But how do we do that as humans? Well, it’s complicated…

So, I explore that question and much more with two great guests, an author and a dominatrix.

We get to the meat of the matter with our literary guest, giving us a lot to chew on, followed by a delicious dessert of kinky eye candy with our FemDom guest. So it’s a full meal of serious discussion and sexy fun!

JoAnn Wypijewski: Behind the #MeToo Headlines

EXCERPTS FROM THIS JOURNAL APPEAR ON COUNTERPUNCH

We start with the wise, scholarly and very sapiosexual JoAnn Wypijewski, veteran journalist, writer and editor Zooming in to join us from her stacked library in New York City.

JoAnn pulls up to Bonoboville in her 1963 Valiant convertible. Photo: Author

A former editor at The Nation, now on the editorial committee of the New Left Review, co-editor with Jeffrey St. Clair and Kevin Alexander Gray of Killing Trayvons: An Anthology of American Violence, published in 2014 (the early years of Black Lives Matter), JoAnn writes for The Nation, New York Times Magazine, The Guardian, Mother Jones and Harper’s, as well CounterPunch, where I write too, and which is how, one dark and steamy night in 2015, she found me.

Vrooming up to the curb in her too-cool-for-school 1963 Valiant convertible, she won the hearts of Bonoboville upon arrival.

We all had ourselves a very good time just hanging out by the car and at the old Bonoboville bar, having a car-side chat, followed by a bar-side chat and then back to that cool car again, drinking and chatting about sex, cars, politics and bonobos.

In the middle of our chat, a female friend came in from a night out, plopped down on a barstool and mused, “I think I was raped.” Describing what happened that night, she recalled that she agreed to have sex, even though deep inside, she didn’t really want to. She wasn’t physically attracted to the guy, but she was interested in what he could do for her career. She never pushed him away, said “no” or asked him to “stop,” but she hoped her unarticulated revulsion would persuade the man to stop the sex and, ideally, resume their delightful conversation about how he could help her attain stardom.

Dumb Dude didn’t take the hint. Since she never tried to stop him or even said “no,” she somewhat reluctantly concluded that she wasn’t raped, but had made the common mistake of agreeing to have lousy sex in exchange for getting professional help which she never really received.

Nothing wrong with Quid Pro Quo sex (it’s the basis for most sex work), but get paid upfront, Grrl!

Still, we empathized with her regret and, though this was a good two years before #MeToo emerged, we talked about the changing, sometimes confusing attitudes toward and even definitions of “rape,” “sexual assault,” “sexual harassment” and other problems, “sins” and peccadillos that night.

What a pleasure to chat with JoAnn who has devoted so much of her venerable career in journalism to investigating and often championing human sexuality in our erotophobic culture. 

Live from New York: It’s JoAnn Wypijewski!

And now here she is on DrSuzy.Tv, having come out with a wonderful new book with a very long name: What We Don’t Talk About When We Talk About #MeToo: Essays on Sex, Authority and the Mess of Life  (Verso). The luxurious length of the title underlines how important it is sometimes to discuss things fully, and how, when we talk or write in soundbites, we miss the illuminating truths of life’s real messiness.

JoAnn’s book explores that messiness brilliantly, if not conclusively, examining sex scandals and sex panics over the last three decades, from the Central Park 5 to Harvey Weinstein, Abu Ghraib to Woody Allen and much more. She’s even got my old nemesis Dr. Laura Schlesinger and my great mentor Dr. Betty Dodson in there.

She opens the title chapter by sharing a story of passionate, unplanned sex between a young boss and a younger intern. At the end of the tale, she reveals that the boss was her, inviting the reader to think about ingrained assumptions regarding sex between subordinates and supervisors.

JoAnn intensifies the story during our Bedside Chat, including juicy details, like (I’m paraphrasing here; listen above or watch below for JoAnn’s exact words),  “His kisses were so sweet,” “He was beautiful, like a Greek God,” “I said, “You know I can’t hire you now’,” “He was shocked,” “We did it anyway,” “I hired him anyway…”—making vividly clear the messiness of this incredible, unforgettable, un-regrettable sexual experience.

No regrets for her, no complaints from him, JoAnn’s true tale challenges us to think about how, in the #MeToo era, we might view that consensual, if “messy,” erotic encounter, especially if the roles were reversed and the ages expanded a bit. What if the boss was an older man and the young intern was female? Probably, many would view it as sexual assault, especially if someone with a media megaphone described it that way.

“Sex panic” is buttressed by “poisoned solidarity” …. the thrill of mob revenge on the “monster” who is, all too often, a scapegoat.

Of course, no decent person supports rape or any nonconsensual sex, least of all a staunch feminist like JoAnn. Nevertheless, as a long-time human rights advocate and sexual freedom fighter, she notes that the fear of sexual assault—as well as of consensual sex that isn’t “appropriate”—can be terribly destructive in far-ranging ways.

For example, society’s purported desire to “save” sex workers from “trafficking” has certainly done more harm than good, as JoAnn writes: “the shutdown of Backpage, the most popular internet ad site for sex work, and the subsequent nervous decision by Craigslist to discontinue its Personals section (both 2018) was part of a putative safety campaign that has made sex workers less safe and less independent. The Justice Department’s onslaught against Backpage, touted as a blow against sex trafficking, has had the opposite effect, because the site had closely monitored ads and alerted law enforcement to suspected exploitation. As so often, a protection campaign on behalf of women and children protects neither.”

Of course, we’ve been talking about this for years on DrSuzy.Tv, mostly with sex workers themselves, so it’s great to hear it through the acutely articulate voice of a veteran journalist like JoAnn.

“We’ll take your ads,” offers Capt’n Max, as we show off copies of Speakeasy Magazine, the first edition, featuring Daniele Watts and Chef Be*Live in Splosh ‘n’ Art.

Sex Panic!

One of the main themes of What We Don’t Talk About When We Talk About #MeToo is “sex panic,” a.k.a. moral panic, which JoAnn defines as “a social eruption fanned by the media and characterized by alarm over innocence (stereotypically, white women and children) imperiled. The predator is a lurking, mutable social presence, a menace against which the populace must be mobilized—and has been since at least the ‘white slavery’ panic of 1880s–1910s, but almost continuously since the mid-twentieth century. That politics of fear has not been trivial. Examples range from the fever over (homo) ’sexual psychopaths’ (1950s) to serial rages since the late 1960s against: sex education; gay ‘sex rings,’ gay teachers, gay threats to family; ‘stranger danger’; Crime!; Porn!; satanic ritual abuse in day care; sexual abuse dug up from ‘repressed memory’; AIDS predators; ‘superpredators’; internet predators; Sex Offenders as a separate category of human being; ‘pedophile priests’; epidemic campus rape… Sex figures as a preternatural danger, emotion swamps reason, monsters abound, and protection demands any sacrifice, including the suppression of opposing views.”

What We Don’t Talk About When We Talk About #MeToo: Essays on Sex, Authority and the Mess of Life (Verso Press) Author JoAnn Wypijewski on DrSuzy.Tv

This is the erotophobic culture in which we reside and that very few question, especially when news of a fresh sex scandal spills like an errant ejaculation into our innocent news feeds.

JoAnn Wypijewski is one of the few. With courage, compassion and a veteran journalist’s attention to detail, she investigates and explores the stories of the real human beings behind the sex panicked headlines of our times—“at the cusp of the liberationist ’60s and the fear-jacked backlash”—in What We Don’t Talk About When We Talk About #MeToo.

“Sex panic” is buttressed by “poisoned solidarity,” an apt concept JoAnn often uses, coined by anthropologist Roger Lancaster, author of Sex Panic and the Punitive State, the thrill of mob revenge on the “monster” who is, all too often, a scapegoat.

It’s sad to see a positive term like “solidarity” being “poisoned,” but it happens too often to ignore, everywhere from the deep group passions of witch hunts to the Daddy-fetishizing delusions of Hitler’s Third Reich, Mussolini’s fascismo and tRump’s base.

Though the thrill of poisoned solidarity in relation to sex panic didn’t start with social media, it has greatly expanded with it. But the phenomenon goes way back, at least to the celebratory mobs gathered around dead men swinging from trees.

“It should be impossible to think of sex and accusation and not think about race,” writes JoAnn. “White America lynched some 4,000 black people, mostly men, from 1877 to 1968.” She considers the powerful influence of the wildly racist, KKK-positive 1915 film Birth of a Nation, which popularized and “nationalized white panic, sex panic and the idea that an aggrieved white populace has a right to commandeer justice.”

Many of these lynchings started with sexual accusations by white women against black men.

“I expect that progressives today presume that all those white women were lying,” writes JoAnn, leaving the reader to wonder: What might that mean about today’s accusations.

It’s interesting that the term “MeToo,” created by African American activist Tarana Burke to help mostly women and girls of color acknowledge sexual abuse and begin to speak about trauma, exploded as a hashtag in Hollywood, based on accusations from mostly white women.

Hollywood didn’t invent the human “predator,” JoAnn writes, but it developed the idea as a compelling “character” for mass culture. “As the Bad Man, the predator exists to authorize the bad that the Good Man does, to convert it into good, and thus to affirm that justice is whatever the white avenger says it is: undebatably, the only process due.”

JoAnn’s book has an astute chapter on shunned filmmaker Woody Allen and the flimsiness of the “charge” against him that he molested his daughter Dylan during a family gathering at Mia Farrow’s house when the two were separated.

In a way, Woody’s unadjudicated, mob-dispensed public disgrace birthed the #MeToo movement in the person of Woody’s own estranged son (who may or may not be his biological offspring), Ronan Farrow, the “Good Man” of #MeToo. Meanwhile, Ronan’s brother, Moses Farrow, tells a very different story.

When I reflect on Woody’s predicament, I think about his old movie The Front, but instead of the Commies being the worst evil imaginable, it’s the Pervies.

Personally, I believe in Free Speech for all, even the many liars among us. People, private publishing houses and film companies have the right to boycott, insult, not watch, produce or publish Woody Allen. It’s possible that history will judge him more kindly than his peers, as it did another literary darling who was also branded a degenerate in his day: Oscar Wilde.

Poor Oscar was imprisoned for two years where the harsh treatment greatly worsened his fragile health, contributing to his death three years later at the age of 46. Public humiliation is one thing (it’s even a fetish!), but when it comes to incarceration, well, that’s a much harsher punishment than social media scorn, yet not as bad as lynching, though it’s all related.

We turn our chat to JoAnn’s views of Harvey Weinstein’s New York trial, which she attended as a public observer. Whatever may or may not be true about Harvey Weinstein the man, the mogul, the monster and the bully, what JoAnn describes is a travesty of justice under the law.

Listen above or watch below for her story of Weinstein accuser Jessica Mann’s unbelievable testimony and other outrages at the Weinstein trial.

We talked about the “monsterization of Weinstein” in the media and the courtroom, accompanied by the depiction of his victims as absolutely powerless to stop him, even when he left them alone with total freedom to get away.  

“What was so depressing at a feminist level about the Weinstein trial was the ideology underlining it of absolute female disempowerment,” she said.

Suddenly, as we’re chatting about Jessica Mann’s strange, inherently contradictory testimony—how she didn’t really *mean* it when she complimented Weinstein, wrote him adoring notes, said she missed him, came back for more, etc.—JoAnn loses her Internet connection and disappears. It’s almost as if my old Yale classmate, Manhattan district attorney, Cyrus R. Vance Jr., proud of his big win against Weinstein and not happy to be reasonably questioned about it, somehow finds a way to cut JoAnn’s Internet.

Then suddenly, as we’re chatting about Jessica Mann’s strange testimony on the witness stand, JoAnn loses her Internet. It’s almost like my old Yale classmate, Manhattan district attorney, Cyrus R. Vance Jr., proud of his big win against Weinstein and not happy to be reasonably questioned about it, somehow found a way to disconnect us.

Just kidding, Cy!

Grinning gamely as I figure out what to do when we lose JoAnn. Photo: Harry Sapien

But that reminds me to mention JoAnn’s disturbing story of JoAnn’s disturbing story of Harvard Law Professor and House Master (“master” being the old title for a professor who supervises the on-campus residential life of a group of undergraduates, which has been officially put out to pasture by the oh-so-culturally-sensitive Ivies, but is still used colloquially) Ronald Sullivan, the first Black House Master in Harvard’s history, removed from that post last year because his brief presence as an attorney on the Harvey Weinstein defense team was said to make some of his students feel “unsafe.”

The old American judicial adage that everyone—especially the defendant who is “seen as guilty”—deserves legal representation, didn’t appear to phase the Harvard students or administrators who relieved Ronald Sullivan and his wife of their Master titles. Feelings of “fear” and “discomfort” regarding a “Master” helping a “Monster” trumped any concerns about justice under the law or the defendant’s right to the attorney of his choice.

Horrors of Abu Ghraib

I put off talking more about Weinstein until JoAnn returns; my terrific tech team keeps reassuring me, “We’re getting her back!” but I have no idea how long that will take.

So I pivot from Hollywood 2020 to Baghdad 2004 and the shocking military “detainee” sex scandal of Abu Ghraib.

JoAnn’s book has an excellent chapter on Abu Ghraib, much of it based on her attendance at a very different kind of court proceeding, the U.S. military trial of 21-year-old Lynndie England who was convicted, essentially, of torturing prisoners for fun (and kinky fun at that!), while the rest of the military *only* practiced torture for serious purposes. JoAnn covered all the big trials of Abu Ghraib, which is a lot more than can be said for the mainstream media which, though salivating nonstop over “The Photos” when they appeared, were largely MIA when it came to covering all but the first of the trials.

Abu Ghraib “Theater of Cruelty.” Photo: Harry Sapien

Like everybody else, I was appalled and fascinated by “The Photos”; I wrote about them for Counterpunch as “Bush’s POW Porn,” and I made a collage, “The Theater of Cruelty,” (with a hat tip to Antonin Artaud) which I talked about as I waited for JoAnn to reconnect. Also, like everybody else, I felt that 21-year-old Lynndie and her cohort soldiers were the guilty perpetrators of these frankly abusive and fairly outrageous stunts and, of course, they ought to be disciplined. But the perpetrators of the war itself, the Rape of Iraq, the Afghanistan invasion and the culture of routine torture that predated it and festered in its wake, were far guiltier. Humiliation is really awful, but murder is a hell of a lot worse. If anyone was going to prison, it ought to have been the Murderers-in-Chief, Bush, Dick and Rummy the Bechtel-Dummy.

And then there’s Gina Haspel, who supervised “black sites” which set the pattern for prisons like Abu Ghraib, and as a reward for her steady stewardship of America’s notorious torture palaces, was promoted to head up the CIA as its first female director.

One of the legal people who “accommodated” the American torture of detainees and later, as a judge, ruled that War on Terror prisoners have no habeas corpus rights, was Brett Kavanaugh, now Supreme Court Justice of the United States, and yes, JoAnn has another insightful, nuanced chapter about Lying, Crying Brett in her book. 

“The Ron Jeremy Police”

At this point, JoAnn appears on our screen as suddenly as she disappears.

DrSuzy.Tv Broadcast Bay featuring Unscene Abe and Mars FX. Photo: Harry Sapien

We chat a bit more about Abu Ghraib and Harvey (listen above or watch below, and also check out JoAnn’s amazing post-show letter to me at the end of this section), then we move onto a subject that is closer to home.

As you may know, An old friend of ours, Ron Jeremy, probably the world’s most famous male porn star, was arrested a few weeks ago, and is now locked up in LA’s notorious Twin Towers jail on $6.6 million bail, several women having accused him of “forcible rape” and assault. Check out my interview with Ron’s assistant, Albert Minero, Jr., on Bedside Chat 14, for more details.

We’re running out of time (ah, time!), and JoAnn has only learned of the Ron Jeremy scandal in the past couple of days, but she is naturally skeptical of another sex scandal that has so many similarities to the Weinstein case. The big difference is that this one is inside the porn industry and its “conventions,” the blatantly slutty underbelly of the more discreetly slutty Hollywood.

JoAnn wonders what’s up the sleeve of Ron’s most prominent public critic, Ginger Banks.

Capt’n Max, no stranger to the wrath of the police in pursuit of sex “monsters,” even if they’re just publishers, points out that in an interview, Ginger declares herself to be “the Ron Jeremy police.”

Interesting title to give yourself.

Like the “Karens” who try to “police” people of color as though they themselves wear a badge, or actually call the police on specious grounds, Ginger has the zeal of a crusader who wants to “change” the porn industry, weeding it of old-school icons like Ron and John Stagliano, with the help of the #MeToo mob (porno division), as well as the police, who find it so much easier to arrest pornographers than truly dangerous criminals.

Most of the porn industry leaders appear to be taking Ginger’s side against their old friend, sex icon and dependable moneymaker, “The Hedgehog.” However, there are almost as many thumbs-down as thumbs-up on Ginger’s interview, a much more negative ratio than other interviews on that channel.

Ron’s case came along too late to find its way into What We Don’t Talk About When We Talk About #MeToo. But the book includes a wealth of cases and stories, culled from 30 years of sex scandal-focused investigative journalism, accompanied by an effervescent curiosity, diamond-sharp wisdom that is rarely heard these days (or any day) and a sense of compassion that seems to envelope the reader in the author’s warm, strong arms.

At least, it enveloped me.

But now we really have to go. JoAnn ends our chat as she ends her book, with a pithy quote from the late great James Baldwin about how we need to guard against “habits of thought that reinforce and sustain the habits of power.”

Perhaps, before we say yes to the next invitation to poisoned solidarity out of “habit,” as we so easily and often do, we should try to think for ourselves.

I’ll sum it up with one of my favorite quotes from What We Don’t Talk About When We Talk About #MeToo: “Marx was wrong. Sex, not religion, is the heart in a heartless world.”

In her closing, Weinstein’s lead attorney, Donna Rotunno, made a remarkable declaration: “Jessica Mann is a victim of the state.”

Then, the day after our Bedside Chat, JoAnn wrote me an email that’s so eloquent, it made me cry. I’ve reprinted it here:

I had a lot of fun. There was something I wanted to say about Ron that I forgot, but I think it’s a longer conversation. Reading up on him, I was struck by something that kept coming through the stories, that reminded me of Weinstein. And I had a question for you, because it really is a psych/sex therapist question:

— What happens to a person’s sense of boundaries between performance and personality when he’s in a situation where he is expected to behave a certain way, is rewarded for that performance, is identified in some part of his society with that performance? If everyone expects Weinstein to be a bully (leave aside the sex allegations for a moment), and he gets results as a bully, what’s to stop him from being a bully? And if he’s a bully in work life, might he not be a bully in sex life? Might it not bleed over? With Ron, if everyone expects him to be grabby, to be outrageous, might not the performer and the personality sometimes blur? or the social expectations of the crowd shape/distort the person’s attitudes away from the crowd?

— Isn’t it a little like dog training? I mean, I know we’re higher than dogs (though maybe not bonobos), but the training aspect, the reward aspect, it has to do something to you.

— With Weinstein (also an ugly man, and then, later, a very physically damaged man) I kept thinking about what he might have made of those emails that flattered him, in which a woman said she loved him, was grateful to him; said he was sort of adorable (I can’t remember the phrase), complimented his eyes (!) Why wouldn’t someone in receipt of emails saying When can I see you? think she wants to see him. If she says, I tried to change my plane ticket but couldn’t and I’m so bummed, why wouldn’t he want to think she was telling the truth? If they’ve had sex once and she comes back for more, why wouldn’t he think there was will on her part?

Ron said he thought a lot of the woman who complain about him had ‘buyer’s remorse’. And maybe Weinstein’s women did too.  But the deeper question is the message they send, and the expected results.

What was so depressing at a feminist level about the Weinstein trial was the ideology underlining it of absolute female disempowerment. 

So that no decision a woman made could be truly hers.

She was a child, in need of protection.

She could lie, and need face no consequences. He must intuit everything. In fact, he must read her letters not at face value, not as a human in need of love, of affirmation, but as a businessman, calculating that every word must be calculated, must be false.

And she is utterly irresponsible — because of course “he has so much power”.

Pussy power was nowhere considered in that courtroom — and it’s true, hard to introduce unless Weinstein himself had testified (which he wanted to).

But plain old personal dynamic power.

The power of “I love you”.

Who doesn’t want to believe that?

That’s the essence of the monsterization of Weinstein. He was not just portrayed to be physically repulsive (and what beautiful, young, nubile woman would want to be with such an ugly, ugly man?). He was not just portrayed as a power freak, an irascible person, a bully. He had to be seen outside all ordinary human emotions: a figure for whom ‘I love you”, “I want you,” do not work their magic.

Like Caliban, he was meant to be so aware of his subhuman, monstrous position that he should have known no one could ever utter a kindness except as a calculation for future reward.

So buried in all those words is another psych question too: Not only how can we even imagine what all this did to him (what was going on in his head), but what does the excusing away of really anti-social behavior on the part of the women say about their psyches? and the society that wants to pass this off as “normal”?

I mean, to me, either the women in court were pathological liars or … and this I think was totally true for Jessica Mann … they had tied their identity to Weinstein, had bet on him, had let their friends know, had had sex with him maybe to get somewhere (in Mann’s case, maybe also out of ‘compassion’ as she testified, maybe, as she wrote to her boyfriend, because he was the only one who could see past the mess of  her life), and then in 2017 it became very clear that they had made a bad bet. Now Weinstein was toast. Identification with him could only be toxic, so what do you do when you might lose everything, and be judged as a silly slut by the very industry that set the rules of the casting couch and simultaneously stigmatized anyone who lived too openly by them? Mann needed a new identity. In her position, a girl of not much talent but a dogged sense of survival, all she maybe thought she could do was to take on a new identity, one now hallowed by Hollywood: victim; better, Weinstein’s victim.

And now she’s able to sue for civil damages, which she couldn’t have without a criminal conviction, so she’ll get some money.

But much as I loathed her, I also thought, how she’s being exploited by the prosecution and the civil attorneys.

In her closing Weinstein’s lead attorney, Donna Rotunno, made a remarkable declaration: “Jessica Mann is a victim of the state.”

And Weinstein may have done terrible, terrible things, but you figure: this is the DA of NYC, with all its resources, all its investigators and lawyers and police, all the accusers (80, I think), and these two cases are the best they could come up with?

I don’t know enough about Ron’s case or his accusers, having made only a really superficial reading yesterday. but I do wonder if there might be anything similarly at play in his case.

2017: he’s suddenly made a dirty old man; blasted on Twitter and Youtube, fodder for Blake’s policing crusade; object of tremendous, explosive accusation — in an industry that, like aboveground Hollywood, is full of people clawing for position, clawing for survival, clawing to get paid.

For anyone who had a consensual relationship with him, or a regrettable hook-up, or anyone who was hoping for some cash, or a different identity, or who knows what messy combination, wouldn’t he be an awfully easy target?

P.S. to that long message — sorry, but I thought you’d find this interesting.

In the hall at the Weinstein trial I met and got to talking with a prominent feminist activist. She was horrified by the trial. She thought it would end in acquittal (and should); I thought it would end in a hung jury.

But we were talking about  this question of communication and expectations and the terrain of sex relations being normalized in the courtroom.

She said, with real alarm: “What does this say to our daughters about how to communicate sexually? What does it say to our sons?!”

Valiant Bonobos. Photo: Max

What, indeed, does it say? Food for deep thought and for our next Bedside Chat when I look forward to answering JoAnn’s probing questions (though, in a way, she answers them herself right in the email). I’m also excited to ask this exceptionally astute woman a few more questions of my own so she can help me—and you, my darling readers, listeners and viewers—to make sense of this sex panicky world of ours.

Meanwhile, stay tuned and study up! Read JoAnn Wypiewski’s What We Don’t Talk About When We Talk About #MeToo: Essays on Sex, Authority and the Mess of Life.

EXCERPTS FROM THIS JOURNAL APPEAR ON COUNTERPUNCH

Mistress Courtney Takes Control

Our second guest is awaiting us like a Queen on a throne in a stylishly designed and well-equipped, red brick-walled dungeon in London, the town of aristocratic spankophiles, buggers and buggees.

Mistress Courtney zooms into DrSuzy.Tv from her London Dungeon.

Decked out in a sumptuous long leather coat, corset, miniskirt and stiletto heels, her long wavy golden hair framing her face like a halo of naughtiness, the beautiful, sensual and sadistic Mistress Courtney looks every inch (or centimeter), the classic and quite classy professional Dominatrix that she is.

Behind her, a slim male slave named Presley, clad in nothing but bright orange boxers, kneels obediently.

She gets up and sits down on his back as if he were a stool.

#GoBonobos for human furniture!

Very stylish.

We talk about how she evolved into a pro-Domme. Basically, Ms. Courtney was modeling while doing other odd jobs like event management. During a shoot, she was asked to dominate one of the other models, and she took to it like a swan to the lake (sounds more graceful than “like a duck to water,” and Mistress Courtney is nothing if not graceful).

Mistress Courtney in leather corset talks about pleasure and pain on DrSuzy.Tv. Then she steps on a slave, and I show her My Red Bottoms.

Then we talk about #MeToo. Mistress Courtney considers herself a supporter of the movement. I float the idea of #MeToo influencers taking a page from the Dominatrix playbook (as they also should from the female-empowered bonobos) in how to discipline naughty males and keep them coming back for more.

Mistress Courtney is game.

I ask her if she really enjoys and gets turned on from subjugating men, or is it just a job she’s good at?

She explains that she expresses dominant side in two different ways: 1) as a “service provider” for submissive clients who pay her handsomely to dominate them in just the way they like to be dominated, and 2) as a true Domina who does what she likes with slaves of her choosing which she expresses in her videos and private life.

Speaking of private life, Mistress Courtney, complex creature that she is, has a boyfriend with whom she engages in passionate, somewhat kinky sex, minus the Dominant/submissive roles.  She’s especially aroused after she’s had a good domination session. Lucky boyfriend. 

Mistress Courtney administers corporal punishment in a British boarding school setting.

The BF is also quite a good cameraman, though this Queen looks fabulous from every angle.

In between chats, she shackles Presley to the wall and swats his thin shoulders several times with her wicked whip, then caresses the areas where she’s hurt him.

Mistress Courtney is a specialist in after-play and impact play, as well as the interplay of pleasure and pain in sex and kink.

She also shows off her bare foot, including her slightly dirty sole (pun intended).

Indeed, her feet are the heart and soul of her work as she often uses to trample men and provide CBT (cock and ball torture).

And no, CBT is not authorized by the American Military, so don’t get any ideas, Lyndy.

The Mistress also enjoys having her feet worshiped if the toes are sucked “properly.”

She even has toegasms!

Mistress Courtney’s slightly dirty sole.

Then before we can say, “wiggle your toes,” the clock strikes (spanks?) midnight and it’s time to get into our pumpkin and go.

Bonobos Away

This show really flies by, technical difficulties and all.

Bonobos love to kiss. Photo: Lola ya Bonobo

I shout-out credits for my necklace, made by Bonobo Conservation Initiative, under the direction of our old friend Sally Coxe, a gift from my wonderful client Robert; my “I Bonobo You” arm band by The Bonobo Project (Ashley Stone); and most of the bonobo images we show are from Lola ya Bonobo, founded by our friend, Claudine Andre.

Sadly, bonobos are also susceptible to COVID-19, so they are currently in quarantine at Lola and in other sanctuaries, zoos and primate centers.

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Capt’n Max, Sunshine McWane, Harry Sapien (and his new love, Stormy the Blow-up Doll) mask-up and assemble for a group photo (see “Supreme Court of Bonoboville” above), though it feels a little lonely without Ana. The good news is that she’s on the mend and will be back with us sooner than we expected!

Since Ana’s Cocina is closed for a few weeks, we order Carl’s Junior for the after-party which is to Ana’s cooking what a tRump speech is to Cornel West.

So Do We. Photo: Selfie

Then, turned on from JoAnn’s sapiosexual description of making out with her intern and Mistress Courtney’s pretty pedicured toes, my Captain and I remove our masks to kiss-kiss-kiss, come-come-come and drift off into dreamy, steamy (it’s getting hot in here!) heaven.

 July 11, 2020 Susan Block, Ph.D., a.k.a. “Dr. Suzy,” is a world renowned LA sex therapist, author of The Bonobo Way: The Evolution of Peace through Pleasure and horny housewife, occasionally seen on HBO and other channels. For speaking engagements, call 213-291-9497.

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Paul Chaplin made millions in the dirty businesses of law and banking, and now is spending millions—and making a few more—in the far cleaner business of (more…)

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Length 01:52:20 Date: June 23, 2018

by Dr. Susan Block

Summer Solstice is upon us, the great star that nurtures life on Earth shining directly above the Tropic of Cancer, as the sunrise aligns with the mystical stones of Stonehenge, and the northern hemisphere of Earth basks in the most sunlight of the year.

Summer Solstice 2018 Sunrise at Stonehenge

Tis the season of hot nights and sizzling hot romance. Time to get in touch with nature, frolic among the flowers or under the stars and make sexy summer love, away from the computer, the “fake news” and, especially, the horrible Trumps. 

Summer Solstice 2018 on DrSuzy.Tv: Lahna Turner, Ikkor the Wolf, Dr. Suzy, Wry, Jamila Dawson. “Bottom” Row: Lena Starr, tRUMP, Phoenix Dawn, HP Loveshaft. Photo: Jux Lii

But not this Summer Solstice. At the time of this live broadcast, it feels like the Trump Crime Family has reached a new low with the refugee crisis, separating thousands of migrant children from their desperate parents, locking up crying toddlers in cages, violating some of the most basic norms of human decency. If we look at the “news”—real, fake and the messed up combo—we can’t “get away” from these horrors. And maybe at this point, we really shouldn’t get away; we should actively “resist” the evil in our midst before it eats us alive.

But how? Get out in the summer sun and make our voices heard—at the border, in our cities and on the interwebs. The ongoing catastrophe of our times is, once again, pitting Eros vs. Thanatos, loving vs. killing. I believe we engage in a kind of “lovemaking” when we join with our fellow humans to stand up for the downtrodden multitudes inside and outside our borders, against the American oligarchy who would exterminate them/us like an “infestation” or exploit them like slaves, all while breezily letting the world know they “REALLY DON’T CARE, DO YOU?”

First Lady Fashion Statement

About that jacket: Melania spokeswoman Stephanie Grisham informs us testily, “It’s a jacket. There was no hidden message.” That’s true, the “message” isn’t “hidden” at all; it’s right out in the open on our high-fashion First Lady’s billionaire back, letting the basest of her husband’s base (and the rest of us) know just how she feels about this human calamity caused by her husband’s and his predecessors’ policies. In politics, as in sex, as in life, the obvious explanation is often the right one: She really doesn’t care.

18th Century France’s Queen Melania

Either that or it’s the most tone-deaf statement a ruling class woman has dropped since French Queen Marie Antoinette answered the outcry “the people have no bread” with “let them eat cake.”

It’s no joke, it’s not sexy, and it’s dastardly enough to inspire the desire for violent revolution, which is totally understandable but doomed to fail since the American military and its domestic wing, aka the police, not to mention the budding “Space Force,” would easily outgun and out-bomb the revolutionaries. Violent revolution would probably make things worse (yes, it can get a whole lot worse), giving the Mango Mussolini and his fellow plutocrats the excuse they crave to lock up the entire lot of us with “Marshall Law.” 

May the golden force of the Bonobo Way guide us. Photo: Abe Bonobo

Thus, I continue to look to RƎVO˩ution, caring, eros, good (consensual) sex, old Beatles songs, empathy for our fellow creatures and peace through pleasure, aka the Bonobo Way, as my guide through this awful all-too-human mess.

Wry, Jamila, Loveshaft, Lahna & Lena

So we gather together, in the Womb Room “sanctuary” of our little “Church” of Bonoboville, as we do almost every Saturday night, just like some folks gather in churches on Sunday morning—but oh so different!

It may look like we’re gazing at the sun but it’s just an android. Photo: Hugo Flores

Yellow isn’t exactly my color, but I wear it with gold and touches of blue and rainbows to honor the sun.

Here We Are… Photo: Selfie

We share stories of sex, relationships, trauma (personal and political) and culture, we sing and dance, show off and play, reveal intimate truths and discover connections, incidental aphrodisiacs and erotic moments.

It’s all very sapiosexual, sometimes heart-wrenching and occasionally epiphanic with bursts of wild corporeal release.

Phoenix in a moment of wild corporeal release. Photo: Hugo Flores

This gathering features polyamorous Renaissance Man, Wry, host of “A Wry Perspective” and “Poly Talks,” on top of being one of the leaders of Sex-Positive LA and whose many projects include launching a “new platform regarding mental health, trauma, survivor support, and consent,” with private and public meetings and a tour planned for several American cities.

Wry brings along a couple of fellow sexperts, effervescent writer and licensed sex therapist Jamila Dawson  plus rainbow-haired drag king astrophysicist (working on his bachelor’s degree at UCI) and founder of the Pangaea Queer Cabaret, HP Loveshaft.

Wry has been on the show several times and was just here last Saturday at the Speakeasy Journal Launch Party. I met Jamila and HP (in his other character as Anastasia) at various DomCons over the last couple of years, but this is the first time on DrSuzy.Tv for both. It’s always nice to have a mix of veterans and virgins in the Womb Room, mixing up the trust with lust, the comforting familiar with the exciting unknown.

To my left is a rather exciting brand new guest, comedian/musician Lahna Turner, who sings a couple of her awesome, funny, sexy songs in the second half of the show that inspire us to delve into even greater depths of sapiosexual conversation. More on that erotic musical revelation in a few paragraphs, so just keep going down (if you know what I mean)…

Next to Lahna is Lena (how alliterative). Porn performer Lena Starr was born in Poland (another immigrant!). When I ask her to “talk dirty” in Polish, she blushes more like a schoolgirl than a porn star, but gamely comes up with “Pani jest bardzo gorạca.” According to Mars FX, our Polish translator-in-residence, this translates to “Your Madame-ship is hot.”

“Hot” is not exactly dirty, but it inspires the Russian-born HP Loveshaft to huskily murmur something similar in Russian.

“So, you’re a Russian agent?” I presume.

Russian Astrophysicist HP Loveshaft gets The Bonobo Way. Photo: Hugo Flores

“Of course,” HP replies with a wink and a twirl of his pretty pencil mustache.

A Midsummer Night’s (Wet) Dream

The British call summer solstice “Midsummer,” even though it’s the beginning, not the middle of summer.

A Midsummer Night’s Flogging. Photo: Abe Bonobo

One explanation for this seeming contradiction is that our ancestors thought in terms of two seasons (as opposed to our current four): just summer and winter, summer starting with the vernal equinox and ending with the autumnal one, putting the summer solstice at “midsummer” exactly.

Titania, Oberon and the Faeries in Shakespeare’s Summer Solstice reverie, “A Midsummer Night’s Dream.” Painting: Joseph Noel Paton

Which brings me to the iconic Shakespearean Summer Solstice revelry, one of the Bard’s most beloved comedic-erotic masterpieces, “A Midsummer Night’s Dream.” It’s most famous line, uttered by Puck the Faerie sprite, “Lord, what fools these mortals be,” seems more appropriate than ever.

Over the years, we’ve done many shows themed off the play, beginning with“A Midsummer Night’s (Wet) Dream” in 2007, another with the squirting queen Deauxma in 2011, then again in 2013 and now this…

Cast of Characters in “A Midsummer Night’s Wet Dream” 2012: Jaslyn Lee, Jackie Avalon, Dr. Suzy, CeCe Rose, Daisy Cruz; Row 2: Jonni Lynch, Tasia Sutor, Daryl Wright, Lacey Lawless, Tee-Reel. Photo; JuxLii

One of the recurring themes of the original “A Midsummer Night’s Dream” is that of the “ass,” who appears in both human and donkey form, and whose name is, unsurprisingly, “Bottom.” The full name is Nick Bottom, but “Bottom” is the important part.

Phoenix Bottom. Photo: Viso Ryan

Maybe this is why my Ass. producer Phoenix Dawn is so naughty this show, constantly jabbering off-mic—which she knows very well is a punishable offense on DrSuzy.Tv—earning the jabberer’s naughty bottom an on-camera spanking. 

Goddess Phoenix’s Glowing Whip is perfect for punishing pretty naughty Bottoms. Photo: Abe Bonobo

Sometimes I attempt to stop her from talking off-mic by simply placing my hand over her mouth.

The Hand-Over-Mouth Technique. Photo: Capture It Photography

But mostly I just give her spankings by hand, by Bonobo Way book, by Speakeasy Journal and with the sparkling neon whip given to me on my birthday by the great glamazon Goddess Phoenix.

It’s exasperating, especially when I’m trying to move things along, but it does give me an opportunity to promote the upcoming issue of Speakeasy Journal, “Spanking for Adults Only,” as well as practice my whipping prowess on Phoenix’s beautiful bum during the show and on into the after party.

Faerie Queen Titania awakens from her dream. Photo: Abe Bonobo

It brings to mind the line uttered by the infatuated Faerie Queen Titania to Oberon, her Faerie King, as she awakens from “A Midsummer Night’s Dream” in Act 4, Scene 1:

“I dreamed I was enamored of an ass.” Photo: Abe Bonobo

“My Oberon, what visions have I seen! Methought I was enamored of an ass…”

Sapiosexual Conversation Between Spankings. Photo: Capture It Photography

In between spankings, we carry on chatting about sex-positive culture, like wind instruments (no pun intended) jamming between drum sets.

Phoenix Captured in My Ring of Fire. Photo: Hugo Flores

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Wry is active on many sex-positive fronts, including the pro-Sex Workers, anti-SESTA/FOSTA campaign. As we’ve said many times on the show (but it doesn’t hurt to say it again): SESTA/FOSTA purports to “stop sex trafficking” of minors (which everyone wants to do), but it accomplishes nothing of the sort. Rather it enhances the dangers of trafficking as well as causing real harm to consensual, non-trafficked, adult sex workers and it greatly curtails all of our free speech on the Internet.

Serious discussion with the sexperts about sexual trauma and PTSD – both personal and political. Photo: Capture It Photography

Of course, America’s Top John signed this bad bill into being,the remembrance of which causes me to grab my tRUMP “punching bag” dildonic pillow and whack it with a Forbes so hard that Wry almost spills his drink.

Trumpocalypse Therapy. Photo: Visio Ryan

But we can’t deny that 98 out of 100 Senators on both sides of the aisle voted to pass SESTA. Sigh. How many dolls can we spank?

Jamila is very disappointed that Cali Senator Kamala Harris signed SESTA—not to mention initiated the prosecutions against Backpage—especially since Jamila agrees with Kamala on so many other issues.

Wry and Goddess Soma at the International Sex Workers Day Rally

I feel her frustration, and I’m hoping Senator Harris can eventually be swayed toward repealing SESTA/FOSTA, as well as decriminalizing consensual adult sex work. Our good friends Goddess Soma and Mistress Tara are actively engaging senators and congresspeople to make our usually silent voices heard.

Bonoboville Communions

In the midst of all this serious discussion, I feel the need for a “fun” break. Apparently so does everyone else in the Womb Room which breaks out into whoops (not womps!) of joy.

Since Phoenix is already reflexively pulling off her bra, it seems fitting for her to be the Altar Girl.

Wry’s Lapdancer falls out of his lap. Photo: Capture It Photography

When I ask the group who wants to take Communion, Wry’s hand shoots up, whereupon Phoenix puts on her “I Really Do Care” jacket, only to take it off again in a lascivious striptease and lap dance to the tune of Carmina Formosa’s “The Kinkster,” inspired by the Bonobo Way.

Phoenix culminates her lapdance by dropping down between Wry’s legs as if she’s about to be Waterboarded.

What, pray tell, are you doing on the floor, My Dear? Photo: Visio Ryan

I take her pretty face into my hands and gently remind her that she’s to be the Altar Girl for Wry’s Communion.

Wry prepares to take Communion as Lahna looks away, smiling and perhaps wondering what her Mother will say… Photo: Capture It Photography

Whereupon she rises “like the Phoenix” and acrobatically flops on the bed.

Before Communion, Wry confesses that he was “almost” an Altar Boy, as he was raised in such a devout Catholic milieu. Though not sexually abused by any priests, he certainly got mind-fucked by the ornately sex-negative Catholic dogmas. When I explain that the Church of Bonoboville enjoys the uplifting rituals of religion without the sex-negativity, he licks Phoenix’s Altar like a sinner thirsty for redemption.

See, this is the “wet” part of the dream….

Wry takes Communion from Phoenix’s Altar as I watch voyeuristically on the monitor. Photo: Hugo Flores

I get so excited I almost forget to sprinkle on the sacred salt. When I do, Phoenix squeals in ecstasy as she and Wry commune.

Then it’s time for the first Waterboarding of Summer.

Summer Solstice is, of course, a heathen holiday, as are all the best holidays (see Valentine’s Day, Spring Equinox, etc.), at least originally.  In the pagan tradition, the Summer Solstice moon is called the “Honey Moon” because it’s slightly golden, and everybody merrily quaffs mead made of fermented honey during the many weddings held around Summer Solstice.

Those HornyHorned Vikings love their Mead like we love our Agwa!

We don’t have any mead in the Womb Room, but we do have Agwa de Bolivia Herbal Coca Leaf Liqueur.

Though this is Waterboarding, Bonobo-Style, not CIA Chief “Bloody Gina” Haspel-style, it’s still a bit of an ordeal and I must say, Wry takes his waterboarding like a good P.O.W.

After Wry’s Waterboarding, Bonobo-Style, Phoenix is electrified by the Spirit of Agwa. Photo: Capture It Photography

We are all P.O.W’s in the .001%’s war on the rest of us.

Wry Gets Lei’ed. Photo Hugo Flores

Beyond being fun, consensual and delicious, Waterboarding, Bonobo-Style climaxes with “getting lei’ed.”

We have a few more minutes before the break so I ask if anyone else wants to be an Altar. Porn Star Lena’s hand shoots up, but surprise, surprise, she doesn’t really want to be an Altar, she wants to take Communion from Phoenix’s Altar which she had been “sizing up” before the show.

I’m a little disappointed that we don’t get to see her tatas (there are complex reason for this, though she doffs her top later), but hey, we go with the flow on this show, and consent is always the name of the game.

Princess Lena takes Bonoboville Communion from Phoenix’s Bottom in A Midsummer Night’s Wet Dream. Photo: Hugo Flores

The bright side is that she takes her Communion from Phoenix’s ass (there’s that Shakespearean Bottom again).

Moreover, it’s just as well that I won’t be waterboarding Phoenix who seems to be flying high as a mythical  born-again bird in the starry midsummer night sky. Whee…

All that Waterboarding brings out the Twerking Faerie in Lena Starr to the delighted giggles of Jamila and HP. Photo: Visio Ryan

After her First Communion, Lena’s so inspired she gets down on her hands and knees and twerks!

Lahna Turner

When we come back from the break, it’s time for a song by the hilarious and soulful Lahna Turner.

Back from the break with Lahna Turner and Jamila Dawson. Photo: Jux Lii

Lahna, a mother of two, is one hot MILF, much like the actress Lana Turner (whose badass daughter, Cheryl, stabbed Lana’s horribly abusive boyfriend, mobster Johnny Stompanato, to death when Cheryl was just 14—but that’s another story). Our Lahna looks particularly sexy in a slinky grey silk and black lace slip with a big acoustic guitar nestled into her crotch.

Lahna starts singing and we all start laughing. Photo: Capture It Photography

She introduces her first song innocently enough, explaining that she’d written it for her beloved mother, whom I guess is also a hot MILF. Lahna isn’t so sure about that, but when I ask her the name of the song she’s about to sing, she says it doesn’t have a name, but that I can give it a name, so I call it “The MILF Song.”  Though upon hearing it, I think maybe it should be called “The Little Dick Ditty”…

My mama was wise, her proverbs we’re good
if you listen to mama, life turns out like it should
She said grass is greener on the other side
And be  careful what you put in your mouth and your behind
my mama was wise, my mama knew
small decks are perfect for oral and anal too

mama said sucking big cock isn’t fun
if you’re going to lick a dick it’s best to lick a little one
yeah mama said the Deep Throat you’ve got to be a nut
and no one wants monster cock going in their butt
too much of a good thing ain’t good mama knew
that small dicks are perfect for oral and anal too

granny said big wiener ain’t a big win
you can make up for size with a cucumber spatula or rolling pin
yeah many things go in a vagina according to granny
but only certain things fit proper inside your fanny
great granny told granny so my moma knew
That small decks are perfect for oral and anal too

tRUMP’s tiny little pecker might not be so bad if it weren’t attached to such a Big Dick of a human being. Photo: Hugo Flores

It’s a lesson past through generation not to pass on little dick
just to get a guy with a big one who’s a real prick
because size it don’t matter when you’re old and gray
when that dick it don’t work no more anyway
because even a little pecker can hit a clit
my mama knew that small dicks are perfect for oral and anal too

yeah small decks are perfect for oral and anal too
yeah small dicks are perfect for oral and Anal too

What a crazy silly sexy subversive delight. We all sing along with the chorus, just like a Church choir, or a gang of demented pervs.

Singing along with Lahna: “Small Dicks are perfect for oral and anal toooo!” Photo: Visio Ryan

Amen and AWOMEN!

We ask for an encore and out comes “Recycle Song,” which is actually even more of a MILF song than the first one.

“Like a beat-up baseball glove… all it needs is love!” Photo: Visio Ryan

I even bring out my Wondrous Vulva Puppet for this one.

I begin to think I was looking fine, young boy smiled at me
I flirted back give him a week I took him seriously
I thought it was on sparks in the air he started to walk my way
He waved at my kids, called me “Ma’am,” then he turned and walked away

I sat there dejected feeling very lame
then it occurred to me all pussy needs a new PR campaign
always recycle do not be confused
brother you know the truth is it’s better when it’s used

If the muffler is good and the engine purrs too
who cares about dents, you never should buy new
kids might mess it up but all it needs is love
like your favorite old T-shirt or a beat up baseball glove
good things get better with age that the cars wine boots and boots
So tap mamas ass, It’s  better when it’s used

if you find yourself a cougar do not throw away
like meatloaf or lasagna it’s always better the next day
pussy doesn’t spoil so just turn out the light like sexual prime age steak with a touch of cellulite
if you find yourself a MILF you’re going to have some fun
and the best part there’s milk and cookies when you’re done

What a sapiossexual riot Ms. Lahna is.  As we get to talking about the real woman behind the kooky character, she reveals that she is a survivor of great, relatively recent loss, as the widow of famous late comedian Ralphie May who died of pneumonia in November, 2017. Suddenly, after all that musical comedy, as she talks about their intense love, her fear for his health (at his heaviest, Ralphie weighed 800 pounds), their devastating divorce and then his death, a torrent of serious emotion pours forth, and it seems to flood all of us with empathetic feelings.

Then Wry offers that he actually met Ralphie at a meeting at a Universal Music and Video Distribution in 2003, and how inspired he was by Ralphie’s bubbling positivity and, of course, his razor-sharp humor.

Lahna is surprised to hear that Wry met Ralphie. Photo: Capture It Photography

It’s a touching moment.

Wry and Lahna share personal memories of Lahna’s late husband, the great comic Ralphia May. Photo: Visio Ryan

Listen to the show above or watch on DrSuzy.Tv to hear Lahna’s and Wry’s stories about Ralphie and the jokes that were based on Ralphie and Lahna’s life together.

Talking size, shame, body image, food and sex, life and death. Photo: Capture It Photography

We also talk about her struggle with his size, especially as it pertained to his health. This sparks an interesting discussion about sex, love, body image and body shame.

Two other hilarious and sexy Lahna Turner songs you’ve got to check out: Masturbation and I F***ked His Best Friend.

We Are One

It’s almost time to close the show, and though it would be nice to wind all this craziness up with a romantic happy ending like Shakespeare does in “A Midsummer Night’s Dream,” that doesn’t feel right, and the clock is ticking in more ways than one.

Even though “We Are One” is a more serious song, I pull off Ikkor’s shirt as the ladies gaze appreciatively. Photo: Hugo Flores

It’s always fun in Bonoboville, but it’s a relatively serious night that calls for a serious song from Bonoboville’s Rapper-in-Residence,  Ikkor the Wolf.

Ikkor reminds us “We Are One.” Photo: Jux Lii

“We Are One.”

Black and White, Citizens and Immigrants, Resisters and Trumpers, Sex-Negative Religionists and Sex-Positive Kinksters. America feels more divided than it has been in years.

The fact is we are one race, the human race. Science proves that fact, and we can feel it in our bones and bloodstreams in moments like this.

The super-rich do everything in their great power to divide the poor and the middle classes so we don’t unite against them.

One Race: The Human Race. Photo: Hugo Flores

In these times, it’s important to resist the evil in whatever peaceful way we can. For instance, I’m happy to see that a Red Hen restaurant politely refused to serve Sarah Huckabee Sanders. Three cheers and a bonobo beer for the owner. After all, the Supreme Court ruled that bakers don’t have to bake a cakes for gay weddings, so shouldn’t restaurants be allowed to deny service to bigoted liars who try to cover up evil?

No justice, no dinner!

As Paul Rudnick opines, “Sarah Huckabee Sanders has fought gay marriage, gays in the military and she agreed with her dad when he called gays ‘subhuman.’ She should get used to being denied entry at nice places, like restaurants, democracies and heaven.” Hey but I don’t really care, do you?

Actually, I do care. Many of my clients and a few of my friends and relatives are Trump supporters. They are correct when they say that the evil that so many of us see so clearly now was going on under the radar during the Obama years; it has been going on in America since the Europeans invaded this continent with guns and small pox. And that’s just in America. Nevertheless, the Trump Crime Family has made just about everything bad about America a whole lot worse.

Still, these words are truth: We are one.

Humanity is a communal species, and all of nature is codependent. If we don’t recognize it, we won’t be one. Nor will we be two or three or 10 billion. We’ll be zero. Mother Earth will go on without us.

If we really want the human race to stay, we need to follow the Bonobo Way of peace through pleasure, female empowerment, male well-being and ecosexual love.

And we need to remember what we already know in our bones, in our genetic code, in the souls within our flesh: We are one.

Lena twerks her “Bottom” as Ikkor raps and Jamila has a good laugh. Photo: Jux Lii

Meanwhile, even though this isn’t Ikkor’s prime twerking song, “She Bad,” Lena pulls up her skirt and shows off her ass (there’s Shakespeare’s “Bottom” again!) and twerks away. She bad!

Then Phoenix says something off-mic, so I have to spank her again.

With me still getting the hang of Goddess Phoenix’s whip, some of my other guests also feel the ding as I swing.

Spank You Very Much! Photo: Visio Ryan

Sorry Lahna and Jamila!

Entering A Midsummer Night’s Wet Dream through My Enchanted Forest

We follow the Bonobo Way into overtime…

That spawns spin-off sapiosexual and political conversations.

Lena frees the nipple! Photo: Capture It Photography

Then we enter the Enchanted Forest of the Speakeasy Bar.

Bottom the Ass. Producer in the Enchanted Speakeasy. Photo: Hugo Flores

There we act out “A Midsummer Night’s Dream” scene between Phoenix’s “Bottom” and Goddess Phoenix’s magical faerie whip.

Very dreamy, Commedia Erotica-style.

Electric Bottom. Photo: Hugo Flores

We also make out, our tongues swimming in the current like electric eels.

Eventually, the party dies down to the diehards.

With Jux at the bar. Photo: Hugo Flores

The Garden of Bonoboville twinkling all around us, Capt’n Max and I, like Oberon and Titania, the Jay and Bey of the Bonobo Way, ascend the stair to our “Honeymoon” suite.

Honeymooners. Photo: Selfie

There he enters his Midsummer Night’s Wet Dream through my enchanted forest (currently shaved of foliage, but dark and quite wet), and the two of us–charged up from the evening’s emotion, talent, sparkling wits and electric whips, cool fools and hot Bottoms–fly like the faeries into orgasmic bliss.

A Midsummer Night’s (Wet) Dream Lovers Lost in the Enchanted Forest. Photo: Selfie

Stay strong, Brothers and Sisters. Resist Oppression, Repression, Occupation and Tyranny, and stay in love all summer long.

Thanks to Our Volunteers: Videographers-Michah W, Visio Ryan; Photographers – Hugo Flores, Capture It, Jux Lii; On-Campus Bonobos – Phoenix Dawn, Abe Perez, Camille Rosebud, Mita Altair, Harry Sapien, Gideon G., MarsFX, Clemmy Cockatoo, Ana & Miguel.

© June 23,  2018. Susan Block, Ph.D., a.k.a. “Dr. Suzy,” is a world renowned LA sex therapist, author of The Bonobo Way: The Evolution of Peace through Pleasure and horny housewife, occasionally seen on HBO and other channels. For speaking engagements, call 310-568-0066.

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Length: 89:45 minutes

Date: 10/03/2009

Slaves, lovers, porn stars and dominatrixes unite on RadioSUZY1. Between Persia Monir, Boi, Goddess Soma, Mistress Eva, Miss Antoinette, Princess Sheila and Kelly Shibari, we have a little somethin’ for everyone (including a lot of nude boobs).  Our almost pro-golfing/porn star “Hot Mom” Monir tells us about her nursing background and how she’ll still take care of you while Goddess Soma’s entourage of leather-clad hotties in the background revel in their ultimate BDSM-ness.

Oh, how we wish our parents were cool enough to send us to Gay Camp.

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Need to talk? Sext? Webcam? Do it here. Have you watched the show? No? Feel the sex. Don’t miss the Forbidden Photographs—Hot Stuff, look at them closely here. Join our private social media Society. Join us live in studio 😊. Go shopping. Gift shop or The Market Place. DrSusanBlock.tv, real sex TV at your toe tips. Sex Clips Anyone? FASHION, we have fashion! We also have politics. Politics? Have you Read the book? No? How about the Speakeasy Journal? Click here. Ok, how about some free sex advice?

Mischa Brooks, Patrick J. Knight, Amber Chase, Carrie Galbraith, Dr. Susan Block, John Law. Row 2: Michael Vegas, Tiffany Starr, Star, Odette Delacroix, Chris. Photo: JuxLii

Length 1:34:32      Date: June 22, 2013

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This show is dedicated to two amazing and very different individuals who are now no longer among the living.  First, my dear Uncle Pip who just died at the age of 100. Born in 1913, Herman Block, aka Uncle Pip, experienced a full century of life.  And a full life it was—athletic (a trophy-winning tennis champ and a great dancer), romantic, funny, loving and full of pep—that’s why we called him Pip. I love you, Uncle Pip, wherever you are! I wish I had visited you more, especially towards the end. Mazel Tov on making it to The Winner’s Circle of 100.  My condolences to all who miss you now, your children, my cousins Elliot, Jeffrey and Diane, your many grandchildren and great grandchildren.  Special gratitude goes to my saintly cousin Diane, who took care of him daily, virtually giving up her own life so that Uncle Pip could live 100 years, and never in a rest home.  Good job Diane!  Now, finally, you can take time for yourself—maybe you’ll even go to Burning Man! 

This brings me to the other amazing individual to whom this show is dedicated, Gary Warne.  He never actually went to Burning Man, as he suffered a fatal heart attack at the young age of 35, way back in 1983, his ashes dropped from the top of the Golden Gate Bridge where he had so often climbed with a secret group of San Francisco urban daredevils and iconoclasts called the Suicide Club.  I’m proud to have been a fringe member of this mysterious underground association, climbing up to the top of the Bay Bridge and the gleaming Golden Gate, facing my fear of death 746 feet above a roiling San Francisco Bay on one side, tempestuous Pacific on the other, cars tinier than toys rolling across the suspension down the middle. Despite the name “Suicide Club,” we didn’t climb bridges to jump off, but just for the thrill of it, to face death with a zany yet serious zest for life.  On top of that, the view from the summit at dawn was unbeatable. 

So what does all this have to do with Burning Man?  There are no bridges in Black Rock City, at least not real ones.  But the Suicide Club begat the Cacophony Society which begat a huge counterculture event which begat a new culture.

On this show, we delve into the history and philosophy of the first Burning Man, and some never-before-spilled secrets of the Suicide Club, with two of the three co-authors of a breathtaking, beautifully illustrated, huge new book about the anarchistic artistic alliance that linked the two groups: Tales of the San Francisco Cacophony Society.  Not only is it an excellent overview of the highly influential Cacophony Society (which, unlike its parent Suicide Club, courted publicity and took lots of awesome pictures), it’s also a “template for pranksters, artists, adventurers, and anyone interested in rampant creativity.” In fact, it’s got all the tools, ideas, lessons learned and inspiration you need to start your own chapter of, or at least get involved in, the Cacophony Society.  In fact, as the saying goes, “you may already be a member.” 

GUESTS

John Law: Co-author of Tales of the San Francisco Cacophony Society, one of the founders of Burning Man, active Cacophonist and early Suicide Clubber, John was my guide on my first climb up the Golden Gate Bridge. A good Midwestern Catholic altar boy turned Left Coast explorer, John has always searched for something more authentic than the pasteurized pablum of “normal” life, challenging himself and others to push the limits of creativity, adventure and endurance.  It’s a personal pleasure to host John on DrSuzy.tv one more time (his first time was back in 2000 with my brother Steve, a fellow bridge-climber) as he regales us with tales of riding the cable car naked, creating the “Santacon” phenomenon, crashing corporate events with clowns, improving billboards with the Billboard Liberation Front and inspiring artists like  comedienne/performance artist Margaret Cho, novelist Chuck Palahniuk’s “Project Mayhem” in Fight Club and LA’s Reverend Al,  And while they may have hold formal dinners in abandoned buildings, “Leave No Trace” has always been the motto. “If you can’t get into a building without breaking any doors or windows, then the building wins,” says John. It’s especially gratifying to see my old bridge-climbing buddy inspiring so many young people in the Womb Room not just to think outside the box, but to do stuff outside the pre-fabricated norm. Of course, no show on the Cacophony Society would be complete without a profoundly Cacophonous moment of shock, embarrassment, hilarity and noxious odors. This happens early on, when I introduce John to my snake Eve, and she slithers right into his strong, warm arms—then poops all over his suit jacket, shirt, pants and shoes!  And that the tale of how Snake Eve pranked the Master Prankster, not to mention put the caca back in Cacophony.

Carrie Galbraith: A Fulbright scholar, artist, conceptualist and co-author of Tales of the San Francisco Cacophony Society (published by Last Gasp founded by an old friend of Max’s and mine, Ron Turner), Carrie realized she was “already a member” in 1986 when she picked up a “Rough Draft” Cacophony Society newsletter, and soon thereafter  became one of its primary editors.  She also came up with the “Zone Trips” concept, and Zone Trip #4 turned into the first Burning Man.  Though she politely turns down my offer to ride the Sybian, she seems to enjoy her Zone Trip to Bonoboville.

Amber Chase: In from Washington, this is Amber’s second appearance on DrSuzy.tv (her first was Spanking Porn Chicks, Boho Dancers back in 2010), and she’s so impressed with the new works in the sprawling Speakeasy Erotic Art Gallery, she’s going to send us some of her own erotic artwork to show.  An avid cosplayer, Amber voices her appreciation for the rebellious creativity and roleplaying antics of our co-authors and their cohorts.  After baring her lovely naturals to partake in Bonoboville Communion (thanks Lisa and Jello Shots LA!),  Amber volunteers to mount the Sybian for a screaming—and quite Cacophonous—climax to the show. 

Patrick J. Knight: On his virgin visit to DrSuzy.tv, Amber’s dashing fiancé is so inspired by his bride-to-be’s sensational Sybian climax, he has to have one of his own all over her chest! But first, they have passionate pre-marital sex on a couch in the after-party. Clip coming soon!

Michael Vegas: One of our favorite Eroses (from the orgiastic Eros Day XII), Mr. Vegas is now an avid Burner, reporting that he may have been “slightly altered” last summer on the playa where he and his girl strode through the sand with his hipster parents, who have been Burning in Black Rock for over 10 years.  In the after-party, Michael performs a dazzling, neon-glowing Poi show that brings a little bit of Burning Man into the Speakeasy.

Mischa Brooks: On her virgin appearance on DrSuzy.tv, this sultry brunette adult star declares her love for Burning Man (she already has her tickets for this summer’s pilgrimage to the playa), and does her own graceful Poi show in the after-party.

Odette Delacroix:  A DrSuzy.tv favorite, clever Odette is dressed up as nurse—just in case anybody falls off a bridge and needs medical attention—though she soon strips it off for Bonoboville Communion. This sweet petite Loyola Marymount grad  loves wild sex and usually steals the show, but this time, she graciously gives way to our out-of-town guests—teasing us into wanting more of her next time!

Tiffany Star: A DrSuzy.tv award winner and the most-downloaded transsexual in the Vatican, Tiffany wants to go to Burning Man, mainly because a lot of people she knows tell her not to go. For Bonoboville Communion, she reveals her newly-enlarged breasts. “How much does a set like that cost?” Max inquires.  “Nothing!” replies Tiffany, “they were free!”  Obviously not all of Tiffany’s fans are in the Holy See; some are plastic surgeons.

Star:  Another Speakeasy virgin, this lovely fetish and pantyhose model drops her top for Bonoboville Communion with her friend Odette and her new friend Tiffany.  We’d love to see more of her soon!

WEAPONS OF MASS DISCUSSION

RIP Uncle Pip at 100 Years Old, Gary Warne, The Suicide Club, Climbing the Golden Gate Bridge, Climbing the Bay Bridge, Fear Can Be An Aphrodisiac, Urban Environments Are Actually Giant Jungle Gyms, How The Suicide Club Died & Came Back to Life as The Cacophony Society, You May Already Be A Member, Zone Trip #4: Burning Man, Temporary Autonomous Zones, Drawing a Line in the Sand to Enter the Burning Man Zone, Santacon & Santarchy, The Billboard Liberation Front, Zombie Chic, The Bolt-Action Rifle Club, Fight Club, Drinking the Communion Wine, Trusting the Priest, Adding Water to the Communion Wine So No One Finds Out You Were Drinking It, How Much a Set of Breasts Costs, Being vs. Remaining Catholic, Mormons Can’t Do Porn, The Most-Downloaded Transsexual in the Vatican, Anarchy, Make Love Not Porn, The Bonobo Way

COMMEDIA EROTICA

Snake Play, Snake Poop, Putting the Caca Back in Cacophony, Striptease, Bonoboville Communion by Jello Shots LA, Rubber Chicken Spanking, Cacophonously Climaxing on the Sybian, Hot Nurse Costume, Brand New Breasts, 69, Pornstar Experience, Male Ejaculation, Erotic Art, Spanking on the Piano, Rickshaw Rides, Poi Performance Art, Kaddish for Uncle Pip

How nice to find you here watching the show! We’d love to hear from you, so why don’t you call us and tell us about your story, your life, your marriages, fetishes, and how about your sex stories? If it’s Saturday Night, we’re live between 10:30 PM to midnight California time. Call our ON AIR line at 626.461.5212.

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Lifestyles Festival 2014 coordinators Rick Diaz and Mary Diaz (holidng her Treasure Box Novelties “Waterproof Bunny Wall Banger,” Dr. Susan Block, Kerry (holding Dirty Tequila) and Layla Now, therapist with the Block Institute. Painting in upper left by Obyonetaopy. Photo: L’Erotique

Length 1:32:39     Date: May 17, 2014

It’s mid-Masturbation Month on DrSuzy.Tv broadcasting live from Bonoboville, and our exploration of sex-for-one explodes into sex-for-101, orgies, swinging and “The Lifestyle,”in this stimulating warm-up for the resurrection of the original Lifestyles Convention as the 35th annual Lifestyles Festival at the Hyatt Regency Spa and Resort in Indian Wells, California, coming up July 23-27, 2014. This is going to be the hottest couples (and single ladies) party of the summer! Come one, come all… or just come.

Our featured guests are Rick and Mary Diaz, charming veteran playcouple, “ClubWETGroup” operators and “legends” of the swing club scene, as well as Director of Festival Operations (Rick) and Festival Coordinator (Mary) for the Lifestyle Festival 2014. They are accompanied by their sweet, exceedingly busty “slave,” Terry, she of the 40DDs or Gs, depending on which brand of bra she’s pouring her buxom abundance into.

Kerry shows off her bountiful boobage to the ooohs and aaahs of the DrSuzy.Tv crew and viewers, though she doesn’t talk much (she has her reasons). But Rick and Mary are brimming with sexy stories, such as Rick’s tale of Mary being at the orgasmic epicenter of a giant naked clusterfuck that sounds like something out of an ancient ecstatic bacchanalia. They’re also totally into bonobos, which is not surprising since bonobos are also “swingers”—through the trees and with each other. In truth, they save their best stories for off the air, when we hear about their wild experiences (swing and non-swing) with world-famous musicians, major statesmen, tinpot dictators, cosmic astrophysicists and other assorted celebrities. But that’s another show…

This show is about the Lifestyle and how to sexually share your husband, wife or designated significant other without going bananas, but rather by “going bonobos,” expanding your personal horizons and deepening your intimacy. Various forms of sexual sharing are getting more and more popular with all types of couples from all walks of life. If you could factor in the folks who just fantasize about it (presuming a study could actually get people to be honest about their fantasies), the numbers would skyrocket. Somewhere between the Republican party and the Democratic party lies the swing party.

Mid-show we are joined by our lovely webcam sex therapist Layla Now who shares a few of her own swinging encounters. Of course, many of our clients here at the Institute call to talk about group sex of some sort, fantasizing aboutcasting all rigid social boundaries aside and indulging in the orgiastic pleasure of a threesome, multiple partners, a swingparty, a polyamorous arrangement or a full-on orgy. Some of them discuss their feelings and fantasies while masturbating, which brings us back to the M Month. Somehow, no matter how wild things get, it always comes back to your first and most constant lover: you!

Besides our personal experiences, we discuss some great books that explore the natural human origins of group sex and the swinging lifestyle, such as the amazing Sex at Dawn by Drs. Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethas, Plays Well in Groups by Dr. Katherine Frank and The Lifestyle (which just so happens to include a chapter about ethical hedonism) by Terry Gould. We also talk about the pioneering work of our old friend, Lifestyles founder Dr. Robert McGinley, whom they call the “Godfather” of “the Lifestyle” (he actually invented the term!) and who has been bringing playcouples together in safe, sane, open, erotic, sumptuous and fun environments since the early 1970s. The upcoming Lifestyles Festival at the Indian Wells Hyatt Regency Resort and spa (which includes a championship golf course, if you’re more interested in that type of hole) will feature glittering theme parties, a topless pool, private cabanas, seminars (including one on the Bonobo Way given by yours truly), a 4-star luncheon featuring keynote speaker Seka (the “Platinum Princess of Porn”), hilarious contests, and the wild private swing parties and orgies in all the luxury suites and villas (including ours!) for which the original Lifestyles is world-renowned.

Then Weapons of Mass Discussion give way to Commedia Erotica action, as often happens on DrSuzy.Tv, making the transition via “Bonoboville Communion.” Rick and Mary were both raised Catholic (Rick seems to have been born lapsed, but Mary wanted to be a nun… until she discovered sex), so they really appreciate Bonoboville’s version of communion. And they can’t get enough of our dangerously delicious Dirty Tequila (must be the cinnamon and pineapple), so we give them a bottle to take home and share with their swinging friends. After they lick the ceremonial salt (Bonoboville’s version of the wafer) off each other’s nipples, as well as Kerry’s grand gazongas, Layla joins us by lapping at her own lovely pink tatas and downing a little tequila she happens to have on hand—not as yummy as the Dirty, but hey, it’s pretty good for a spontaneous cross-country Bonoboville Communion!

Thus fortified, we open our brand new box of sex toys from TreasureBox Novelties. After carefully examining all contents, Mary chooses to celebrate Masturbation Month with a “Waterproof Bunny Wallbanger” (perfect for sticking on the wall of your shower for those moments when you’ve got nothing to do while conditioning your hair). Between the Lifestyles banners, the Bonobo Way signs and the Brooklyn Bridge shower curtain, we don’t have a lot of wall space in our little radio studio, so we wind up sticking it to the chair whereupon hot MiLF (and GiLF!) Mary gracefully lifts up the hem of her little black slip-dress, removes her panties, wiggles her ass (which I whack with my convenient JuxLeather finger-flogger) and slowly but surely sits right on the thing, humps it up and down a bit and then sticks it in her purse for “later.”

Click the link above to listen free or watch this stimulating show on DrSuzy.Tv—and guess what, Bonoboville members get to watch free! This is a limited-time offer so take advantage and join Bonoboville while we’re still swinging through our Beta testing phase.

Postscript: We just got the sad news from Dr. Bob McGinley that Lifestyles 2014 has been canceled.

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Length: 90:54 minutes

Date: 09/26/2009

If it’s rockin’, don’t go knockin’ on Prysm and Rayfe’s loveboat. The cute couple comes by to talk about their steamy sailboat-love life with Dr. Suzy and Speakeasy Girl Sparkle Sparkle Bang Bang (or is that Gang Bang?), now a DJ looking for a Rock Star lover. Author Mitzi Szereto talks about her anthology of erotic fairy tales “In Sleeping Beauty’s Bed,” and the couple proceeds to get rockin’ drunk on Agwa. Aunt Debra’s back with her friend Christina, a lovely, quite giggly, young lady who reveals a big sexual surprise.

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Following a rousing reception to her 2021 “State of the Sexual Union” address, world-renowned sex therapist and “Sexologist of the Year” Dr. Susan Block, aka Dr. Suzy, returned to Active Radio with host Hartley Pleshaw on WCAP-AM 980 in the Massachusetts Valley to deliver a new State of the Sexual Union address for 2022.

Broadcast live 2/12/22, this special Valentine’s Day weekend address and interview focused on some of the major themes and events of the past year, including

• The ongoing Coronapocalypse, and how singles and couples are navigating the difficulties and opportunities of pandemic sex
• 2022 improvement: We don’t have a grifting, sociopathic narcissist in the White House, but we do have a geriatric neoliberal corporate military industrial complex cheerleader, which is only marginally better
• The 1/6/21 Insurrection and its noxious aftermath
• The Afghan war and the monstrous American Miitary-Industrial Complex
• The Massage Parlor Massacre and the general rise in misogynistic ammosexual violence and discourse
• Andrew Cuomo, #MeToo and the backlash
• Joe Rogan, Jordan Peterson and the masculinist incel movement
• Distinguished leftist journalist Chris Hedges “plague of pornography” campaign is dangerously misguided
• Neopuritanism rising on the Right and the Left
• Toxic masculinity and toxic femininity
• The American Conservative and the misogynistic Sexual Counterrevolution
• The atrocity of Julian Assange still being imprisoned
• Small win for sex this year: Onlyfans flipped
• Stormy Daniels won her suit against Avenatti
• The ominous anti-sex, anti-Free Speech “EARN IT” act is worse than the proven-to-be-bad SESTA/FOSTA acts
• Lupercalia, the original pagan Valentine’s Day
• Happy World Bonobo Day! Help save humanity’s closest great ape cousins, the bonobo chimpanzees, from extinction – and release your inner bonobo for better sex and a better life
• The Bonobo Way of ecosexuality, female empowerment and male well-being, sharing, caring and peace through pleasure.

Click here to listen to Dr. Suzy’s 2021 State of Sexual Union address.

Listen to Dr. Suzy’s 2022 version of her “I Have a Fantasy” speech on FDR Radio’s Valentine Fantasies & Neopuritanical Nightmares.

Click the pic above to listen to Dr. Suzy’s 2022 State of the Sexual Union address and chat with Hartley Pleshaw.

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Length 1:36:04 Date: Jan. 2, 2021

by Dr. Susan Block.

Come join us in the Speakeasy bar car on the train into 2021. Then we’ll slip into the sleeper car to share stories of sex and socialism, laugh, sing, philosophize and make love, crying out in ecstasy as the train whistle blows… so nobody knows.

All Aboard!

It’s our first live show of 2021 and the second episode of “F.D.R. (F*ck Da Rich),” another eargasmic radio podcast hosted by Capt’n Max, aka Prince Maximillian R. Leblovic di Lobkowicz di Filangieri, and me.

The title of this broadcast is also my New Year’s Resolution for 2021 which I deliver in parts as a live dramatic reading as the train rolls on.

Choo-choo!

In between the parts, we reminisce about The Great Erotic Train Ride (the first erotic “Bedtime Story for Adults Only” that Max and I made together), cashing a settlement check when I sued the L.A.P.D. while Max was a fugitive in France, and how a Dr. Susan Block Show’s “Happy Nude Rear” made our Montana engineer exclaim, “Makes my butt sweat!”

We also announce the launch of the Bonobo Happiness Exchange and Max tells the story of the old Big Joe’s Happiness Exchange. He also reminds us of that rusting oil tanker off the coast of Yemen (first mentioned on our “Virgin Show”) about to explode into an environmental and humanitarian catastrophe unless some compassionate billionaire steps up and fixes it.

Then we check in with our old-friend-the-porn-star Kiss, aka Anna, listening to F.D.R. on Facebook Live in Hawaii, and Danny in Dubai who wants an “open relationship” with his wife, as we chat in-studio with assistant Mariah and tech director Unscene Abe. Actually, everybody is “unseen”; it’s a radio show.  Calling in from Amarillo, Texas, Elvis Presley tribute artist, Smokey Binion, Jr., wishes us a Happy New Year and sings “Love Me Tender” expressly for Mariah who is excited to have a “fan.”  From Bonoboville, L.A. to Hawaii to Texas to Dubai, we are riding that train, high on… life. We’re also hopeful for a more bonoboëque future in 2021.

Read the text of My New Year’s Resolution to “Go Bonobos in 2021” here: http://drsusanblock.com/go-bonobos-2021

Or read it on Counterpunch: https://www.counterpunch.org/2021/01/01/go-bonobos-in-2021/

Note: The #GoBonobos in 2021 banner features The Dr. Susan Block Show “Class of 2020”

Need to talk PRIVATELY about something you can’t talk about with anyone else? You can talk with us… Call the Therapists Without Borders of the Dr. Susan Block Institute anytime: 213.291.9497. We’re here for YOU.

January 2, 2021 Susan Block, Ph.D., a.k.a. “Dr. Suzy,” is a world renowned LA sex therapist, author of The Bonobo Way: The Evolution of Peace through Pleasure and horny housewife, occasionally seen on HBO and other channels. For speaking engagements, call 213-291-9497.

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Length: 2:04:30 minutes

Date: 9/13/2008

Hanging up is not the way to get a blow job from our hosts, we learn. Plus, they are way too busy geeking out on Brandillio’s Battle Star Galactica-based rap. Dr. Suzy, in a whirlwind of generosity, invites most of her callers to the next Speakeasy party (hint: flattery is always a good thing!) and Joe completely misses the punchline. Felching; it’s the new Bukkaki. A quasi-famous caller who describes himself as a beautiful man, talks about teasin’ and sleazin’ for a menage a trois.

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A classic Ed Fox photo, capturing the whole model, but starring the feet.

Ed Fox, one of the marvelous photographers who has exhibited work in the Speakeasy Gallery, has just released his first book, Ed Fox: Glamour from the Ground Up, edited by the living legendary Dian Hanson, published by Taschen.

Back in pre-HBO days, Ed helped with lighting a few of my TV shows, participated in a couple of our world-famous Foot Fetish Salons, and displayed some of his awesome photography in our gallery.

With Sara Sioux at Taschen Book Party for Ed Fox… Photo: George

So last week, I ventured out of the Speakeasy and met up with Sara Sioux Robertson for Ed’s book party at the elegantly kinky Taschen Bookstore on Beverly Drive.

Congratulating Ed … Photo: George

Ed is a brilliant, very original, erotic glamour photographer, and the book looks like an awesome compilation of his work thus far. Since he is a devout foot fetishist, most of his photos include sexy feet, shot in numerous fetishy, provocative ways. But unlike so much foot fetish photography, Ed’s photos don’t obsess over the model’s feet. Feet are just a part of the whole picture, an important part, but there’s so much more…

Ed Fox at wor

Most of Ed’s work celebrates the whole erotic woman, from her pretty head to her twinkling toes.

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Row 1: Andrea Viscarra, Sienna Sinclaire,  Dr. Suzy,  Jaiya,  Bonnie Gayle. Row 2: Jo Wo, Morgan Bailey,Tasia,Bon Jon Syn, Dawn Michael. Photo: JuxLii

Length: 112:16 minutes        Date: 11/26/2011

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Cooking classes are conducted in a kitchen.  So why shouldn’t a class in Sex Ed be conducted in bed? If you were thinking of playing hooky from the classroom—or make that, the Womb Room—you may want to think again as this is one lesson you won’t want to ditch. Yes, class, it’s back to school night at the Speakeasy as we welcome a freaky faculty full of therapists and educators on our favorite subjects—the pleasures of sex and the passion of revolution.

Featured Guests:

Jo Wo: Occupy LA Occupies The Speakeasy, as Jo gives us a mini teach-in on his daily personal involvement with Occupy Los Angeles since 9/29/11 and his feelings about the movement.

Jaiya: Charismatic somatic sexologist, Red Hot Touch co-author and RadioSuzy1 virgin, Jaiva is a “hands-on” sex therapist who loves her “job” with a passion. After regaling us with tales of her successful stint of 101 days of self-pleasure and her recent top-secret work with Tony Robbins in Mexico, she and her partner, Jon Hanauer, share delicious homemade aphrodisiacs, including a ginseng and deer-antler testosterone-infused tea and sensuous vegan chocolate mousse  which we lick off each other’s pulse points and nipples.  Then she delivers an impressively detailed male anatomy lesson here at the school of Hard Cocks, donning rubber gloves and slathering on the “Sex Butter” provided by one of our guests to give one of the most elaborate, elegant and sensuous handjobs I’ve ever seen to a very happy penis belonging to another one of our guests.  A manual stimulation artist, Jaiya strokes, slaps and kneads that cock like a French baguette, which makes some of the other guests very hungry.

Morgan Bailey: Beloved RadioSuzy1 alumna and TS performer, Morgan comes “home” to the Speakeasy  for the holiday, sharing her bodacious boobs for chocolate licking, but generally taking it easy this show—something about a sun-burnt anus…

Dawn Michael: Sex therapist, marriage counselor, lover of laughter and author of an upcoming book, Dawn actually met her current partner, porn star Bon Jon Syn, right here in the Womb Room when she visited us for Purim with her mentor, world-renowned sex therapist Dr. Patti Britton.

Bon Jon Syn: Another veteran Speakeasy guest, now Dawn’s partner, Bon provides his courageous cock, aptly dubbed “The Beast,” for Jaiya’s exotic handjob and shares a few of his own masturbatory techniques with the class as well.

Sienna Sinclaire: Another proud protégé of Dr. Patti, this sex-coach dolls up and then takes it off in a burlesque striptease to Marilyn Monroe singing “Diamonds Are A Girl’s Best Friend.” We especially appreciate the failing adhesive properties of her silver pasties once they slip away like sex butter, showing off her sweet and perky nipples, as well as the sequined thong that really puts the ass into passing a class with flying colors. It also proves: Faulty Pasties Are My Show’s Best Friend…

Bonnie Gayle:  Creator of Sex Butter with luscious vagina-friendly coconut oil, she spreads the Sex Butter love.

Andrea Viscarra: An audience member and fellow educator of sex with fabulous natural boobs, she came with Sienna, whom she also met here in the Womb Room at a previous show.

Special thanks to Justine Middleton for editorial assistance with this bloggamy.

Weapons of Discussion

Sex Education, Revolution is an Aphrodisiac, V is for Vendetta, Joan of Arc is Sexy, Erotic Suffering, Peaceful Revolution vs. Burning Buildings, Occupy Los Angeles, Organization Without Leaders, How Occupy LA Improves Your Sex Life, Serfs to the Corporation, Slaves on the Plantation, Cops Are Part of the 99%, He Shou Wu Means More Hair and More Jizz, Deer Antler Contains Testosterone, Occupiers and Frequent Fliers, Irish Moss the Lubricant, Avocado is an Aphrodisiac, Vagina Loves Coconut Oil, Erotic Intelligence, Reflex Points on Penis, Facebook is a Plantation and We’re all Sharecroppers, Sex at Dawn Next Week,  Sex Therapist & Coach Dr Patti Britton, Foot Soldiers of the Revolution, Kinsey Scale from Gay to Straight, Anus is Second Only to the Clitoris, Going for the Nipple, Why Men Tend to Speed Up & Women Slow Down, Broadening the Definition of Sex, Checking Twitter During Sex, Congratulations Sherry Rehman: New Ambassador from Pakistan to United States, Potential Eviction for Occupiers, Media Observers Are Welcome at Occupy Los Angeles to Ensure Safety, Before There Were Bank-Robbers & Now The Banks Are Robbers, Capitalism is Bankrupt, How Phone Sex or Roleplay Can Help Marriages, The Poor Can Take Care of Themselves but the Rich Should Beware, 10 Commandments of Pleasure on Kindle, An Occupation by People Without Occupations, Don’t Squirt on the Bonobos

Performance Erotica

Sipping Aphrodisiac Tea, Licking Vegan Aphrodisiac Chocolate Mousse Off Nipples, Long Licks Inside the Forearm, Erogenous Zones, Burlesque Demo, Flushed Cheeks and Erect Nipples from Aphrodisiacs, Index Finger Movement, Demonstration for Vaginas Without the Vagina, Real Men Wear Leather Pants–& Take Them Off, Sex Butter Handjob with Rubber Gloves, Touching Nipple at the Same Time as Cock, Pleasing a Semi-Hard Cock, Waking Up The Beast, Squeezing Pressure Points on the Cock, Deep Breathing Techniques, New Age Blowjob: Lightly Blowing on the Cock, Playing with Little Bits of Foreskin Remnants on Circumcised Cock, Patty-Caking the Cock on the Hand, The “Juicer” Cock Stroke, Masturbation Education, Bringing it Down, Burlesque-Porn-Star-Sex Coach-Strip-Tease, Teasing the Gloves off, Flashing the Crack to the Audience, Sequins Bra, Faulty Pasties Are the Show’s Best Friend, Agwa Shots, Elbow-gasms and Flicking the Tongue,  Licking Without Gloves, Salt Designs Near the Nipple, Chocolate War Paint on Tits, Powerful Tongue Muscles, Tasia Acting Like Naughty Schoolgirl, More Agwa at Recess, Trapeze After School, Hula Hoop Hotties in Detention, More Boobs in General

How nice to find you here watching the show! We’d love to hear from you, so why don’t you call us and tell us about your story, your life, your marriages, fetishes, and how about your sex stories? If it’s Saturday Night, we’re live between 10:30 PM to midnight California time. Call our ON AIR line at 626.461.5212.

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