Dr. Susan Block

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  1. Amal Bonobo
    11 · 30 · 16 @ 9:23 pm

    I really wish to be there!

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  2. Jacquie Blu
    11 · 30 · 16 @ 2:35 am

    What does BDSM play do for me? An interesting question that I get asked quite frequently. This is something that is not particularly easy to explain.

    When I play, I tend to play pretty hard. I have been asked hundreds of times what it is I like about the pain. To me, what I’m feeling isn’t pain at all. Pain is when you stub your toe or hit your thumb with a hammer. This is something that goes way beyond that. I think of it more as “extreme sensation.” If a scene gets really intense, it can even cause me to almost leave my body. Some people call this “zoning” or “sub-space”. It is not too unlike what marathon runners experience as the “runner’s high”, as it is known.

    I love a lot of sting in my BDSM play. I process that sting (that extreme sensation) so that it carries me away, fully trusting in the skill of the one at the other end of the whip. Of course, I do this only with those whom I fully trust and give my consent to.

    To me, it is both emotional and physical. In a sense, it is also a freeing experience. There is a deep sense of security and, yes, even love. I have no concern for my safety, as I always know when I am in good hands. It is an ultimate expression of trust. It can be an extremely intimate experience. Not only sensual and sometimes sexual but, dare I say, even spiritual! I get a sense of great arousal and excitement through what most call pain, resulting in an amazing level of stimulation. I am able to turn that “pain” into intense pleasure and illumination. At times, I become so immersed in the sensations to the point that I become unaware of anything else, such as my environment and the passage of time. I may enter into a trance-like state in which I am no longer conscious of my actions or surroundings. Truly free, flying throughout the cosmos!

    Is it really any different than Fakirs meditating on beds of nails? Or Yogis turning bodily contortions into sublime acts of worship and reaching what is known as nirvana? The Mandan Indians of the American plains performed gory rituals of mutilation and endurance, like the Sundance.

    I not only rise above that “pain,” I also control it and master it. I use it to take me to other places to become closer to my spirit and even the universe. I am not only forging a link with a higher spiritual power, but also a two-way link-up between myself and my Dom/mes using the language of pain, trust and love.

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  3. Jacquie Blu
    11 · 29 · 16 @ 3:56 am

    Being Native American (Cherokee), I have mixed feelings about Thanksgiving. We got a raw deal on that one. However, times have changed (or have they?) and as long as I have hefty amounts of turkey and stuffing I know I’ll be okay.

    Now… on to Spanksgiving! This show, to say the least, was purely magical. After our first initial spanking demonstration, all of the guests were starting to get aroused. Both King Noire and Mistress Erikka amazingly had all the guests bare bottoms up in the air, each one anticipating the spanking they were about to receive. It was beautiful. Even those who were never into spanking got spanked. It was cold outside, but there was enough heat coming off our asses to melt an igloo.

    Thank you Dr. Susan and Capt’n Max for a Spanksgiving that I will remember for a very long time.

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  4. Zane
    11 · 28 · 16 @ 7:24 pm

    This show was an emotional rollercoaster ride for me too. That is what makes this show extraordinary and unique. There is no script. Just pure raw what-you-see-is-what-you-get entertainment. Dr.Susan is as real as it gets. And what a show! I didn’t know whether to cry or laugh or cringe or scream or put my ass in front of those lashings! I am so proud and honored to be a part of the bonoboville family. Thank you Dr. Suzy and Capt’n Max!

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  5. Del Rey
    11 · 28 · 16 @ 4:35 pm

    Thankstaking is a rather odd holiday that brings up all sort of emotions– the good, the bad and the ugly. However this year, the sugary sweet mythos of Thanksgiving and the ensuing feast of consumerism that is Black Friday seemed to get washed away in all the Speakeasy goodness that is Spanksgiving in Bonoboville.

    Dr. Block, your intimate understanding and insights on spanking are so astute that they should be published in a book, OH WAIT! They are! And not just any book, The Wiley Blackwell Encyclopedia of Human Sexuality.

    I find that even with my kinky background, I am always learning more and more about the many facets of sexuality. Who knew that spanking had such varied uses beyond foreplay? The answer: You did.

    This was a splendid holiday show and wonderful Bonoboville tradition indeed. Happy Spanksgiving.

    Whacks & Smacks for all who consent to them.
    ~Del Rey
    #GoBonobos

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  6. Gypsybonobo
    11 · 28 · 16 @ 12:53 pm

    I find it so interesting that Dr.Suzy and I were just discussing on Thanksgiving how some of the best and most celebrated things and moments come from places and points of great tragedy and sadness. And to see my Queen in emotional distress wrenched my heart, and as her little princess I just wanted take away and extinguish her pain. But only our bonobo Queen could be in such a state of grief and despair yet still looking as amazing a the goddess Divine herself, and put on the best gosh darn flogging Spanksgiving show to date!! Thank you Dr.Suzy for ALWAYS being so humble and putting everyone before yourself with such love, style, and grace. Love you more than you’ll ever know xo P.S. How great are these photos!!

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  7. Wattsplaying
    11 · 28 · 16 @ 10:06 am

    It blows my mind that I was so judgemental of erotic play before I found my way to the Dr Susan block institute. I used to think that people who were into bdsm, fetish, and wearing all black, were losers like my brother who went all goth in high school and started listening to Korn, which made no sense to me at the time. Now here I am almost 15 years later just in awe of how FUN this erotic bonobo playground is!!! Dr Suzy you have … me in tears right now I feel such relief and appreciation for your writing and this world of play and pleasure you and Captain Max have so generously invited us to share in. Seeing my dad over thanksgiving brought up a wave of emotional release and my time with you at institute so far is so rich with learning… I feel like I’m in college again, reading your blogs and watching old DVDs of yours ( I especially loved watching your live interview with Betty Page) and skimming through your original “Advertising for Love” book and also reading over your CV … I feel such a cathartic release of the shame I carried for so long against “people like you” that fear of the part of myself that is vulnerable and essentially the excitement of ecstasy.. the little girl in me that wants to run to your room naked and jump on your bed and give you kisses right now LOL!!! Oh gosh. You are a fairy godmother to me of epic proportions and I am forever grateful for your spiritual sexual love gifts … you give the gift of love to all who are willing… even if that love comes in the form of a SPANK!!!! It’s divine grace coming from you Queen Mother Bonobo!!! We all love you so …!

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  8. Harry
    11 · 28 · 16 @ 9:44 am

    This was one of those shows that had it all. It had highs, it had lows, and everything in between. The show is a family and it was nice to see the family come together in epic fashion to produce yet another show that was one for the ages.

    One of my favorite and memorable images was when Dr. Suzy spanked the “Drump” penis pillow and then somewhere along the lines Daniele rode the penis. Beyond hilarious.

    What I loved most about this particular show is that it took me to a secret place inside myself that I didn’t even know existed. There is just something alluring, naughty, and oh-so taboo about spanking. And this was the show for it! Two hot Dominatrixes, one male, and one female wielding their floggers like black belt ninja warriors. And the interplay between them and Chef B and Daniele was all things amazing. In particular, there is one image that is seared into my brain, Chef B was nude and on all fours and she lightly traced the riding crop up his legs and over his balls before spanking him on the butt. Then there was Daniele and her mischievous smile as she was getting spanked. And lastly, at the end Dr. Suzy also partook in the fun bringing the show to an epic climax.

    Another great show! Can’t wait for next week

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  9. Chef BeLive
    11 · 28 · 16 @ 8:44 am

    The Spanksgiving 2016 was “OFF THE CHARTS” RAWKin’ amazing!!!!! It was therapeutic for me because when I got spanked, it brought up some childhood trauma around spanking that I was able to release and let go of. The show was super sexy, and when I saw my open wife Daniele Watts get spanked by the king, it really turned me on! And then he taught me how to do it to her if ever necessary myself! When Jacqueline Versailles had her S&M powerful experience that I can only describe as “Shamanic”, she performed a “letting go”, she is so “in tune” with her body, mind & soul and knows how to Be in and with the experience, blew my mind!

    Thank you Dr. Susan M Block for being such a RawkStar and thank you everyone else for being on the show and especially for all those out there who support it in general.

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