Den of Iniquity 20th Anniversary Celebration on DrSuzy.Tv: Mistress Cybill Troy, Dr. Susan Block, Mistress Tara Indiana (Standing); Vicky Vixen, Oh Maya, Kelly Surfer. Photo: JuxLii

Length 1:28:44   Date: Sept. 6, 2014

Freedom is the greatest aphrodisiac. But restraint is a close second. So it is with great pleasure (and a little bit of pain) that we celebrate the triumphal 20^th anniversary of the Den of Iniquity, world-famous bi-coastal BDSM parlor(s) of consensual horror(s), on DrSuzy.Tv. If you love female domination, leather, fetish or fantasy, you really ought to RSVP for the biggest, baddest BDSM event of the season this Saturday night at DOILA, or at DOINY for the Saturday after that. With a party on each coast, you have no excuse not to go and have your world rocked.

The Den of Iniquity’s founder and Pro-Domme-in-Chief, the elegant, imperious, much-beloved and feared Mistress Tara Indiana, now celebrating her 25^th year as a pro-domme, is our featured guest of the night. Like all the best pro-dommes, Tara is a natural dominant who started out in life as the quintessential “Daddy’s Little Girl,” and went on to become a pioneer of the contemporary American BDSM scene.

Years ago, I happened to meet Ms. Tara through our mutual colleague, the fabulous Mistress Genevieve, when we were in New York for the wet and wild world premiere of Dr. Suzy’s Squirt Salon at the Cinekink Film Festival. A dinner and party ensued, but then we lost touch, and somehow nine years slipped by (and we can thank Erika Icon of The Rub PR for bringing us back together). Time has miraculously left Ms. Tara looking younger, slimmer and stronger. Whether that’s due to “nature or nurture” (one of this show’s Weapons of Mass Discussion), or guided by her inspiration, Catwoman (the Julie Newmar version of Batman’s slinky feline foe), we might give some credit to the rejuvenating power of BDSM.

Our other featured guest is beautiful Ninja-FemDom-Sadist Cybill Troy, who, as Tara puts it, “was just a gleam in your father’s eye when I was beating the shit out of senators,” and is now the Den of Iniquity’s Head Mistress. What’s different about domination now versus back in the day? “Shame,” regretfully replies young Cybill, “there’s no more shame in BDSM.”

Tara agrees, “Shame is hot.” Georges Bataille, philosopher of erotic transgression, would also concur. It’s one of those maddening ironies of human sexuality: Weaned on gazillions of blatant and subtle sex-negative memes, many of us feel sex has to be bad (or taboo) to be good. When my sex therapy clients ask for help “getting rid” of an unwanted fetish, I caution that though you can’t will a fetish away, but you can reduce its power over you just by feeling less ashamed of it. The catch is that then you lose your desire for it, which sometimes means you lose your sense of erotic desire altogether. What to do when shame itself makes you hardest or wettest? For everyone, there’s a different recipe for erotic balance, but the general idea is that a little bit of shame puts spice in your enchilada; too much spoils the meat.

Speaking of injuring your meat, both DOILA Dommes express a keen lust for ball-busting, testicle-kicking, nut-squeezing and all manner of cajones-threatening that has every male in Bonoboville building a protective “Iron Dome” around his family jewels.

Other Weapons of Mass Discussion include the joys of fisting, domestic dominance, consensual ass-raping (“It’s amazing how accommodating the male anus can be,” Ms. Cybill says with a sadistic smile), the wondrous TV love affair of Addams Family Domina Morticia and her strong submissive (“male subs are often very strong men who like to have the crap beaten out of them”) hubby Gomez, bonobo female domination and how to channel your (and everybody’s) natural sadistic drives into consensual BDSM instead of the far more destructive “B’s” of (obviously very nonconsensual) bombings and beheadings. BDSM, Bombings and Beheadings are all very exciting, but of the three, consensual BDSM is the only “shock & awe” leaving zero casualties and a healthy afterglow.

Joining the female domination celebration is the inimitable Vicky Vixen. That’s right, VV just couldn’t get enough of us since her “Farewell” Show last Saturday, and we can never get enough of her. Though she wears her over-the-knee leather boots for this show, she “switches” to submissive in deference to the DOILA dominas, doffs her top to reveal her big bouncing tatas for Bonoboville Communion, and goes over Mistress Tara’s knee for a bare-handed, bare-cheeked spanking which starts soft, but when naughty Vicky mouths off, she gets it extra hard, and those ass cheeks flush to a rosy glow.

For her second “farewell,” Vicky brings an entourage, including her sweet sabra “sexual companion” Sagi, as well as the effervescent, semi-submissive, Australian-born Penthouse Pet Kelly Surfer who likes to “surf dick” and has “CUNT” tattooed onto the inside of her lower lip, plus their landlord (!), the lanky laconic Hobbs who insists he is neither dominant nor submissive, though he built and ran his ex-girlfriend’s dungeon.

Many cum and go in and out of the BDSM world these days. One of the few FemDom domains that remains is Den of Iniquity, with the help of the natural dominance and nurturing diligence of Mistress Tara, the youthful energy and ninja power of DOILA Head Mistress Cybill Troy, the multiple abilities of the many FemDoms who work and play there and the passions and devotions of their loyal clients over the years.

More shout-outs to CatalystCon where we’ll be this weekend (before the DOILA party), our favorite “Unlicensed Professionals” Catherine Imperio and Samantha Fairley whose bountiful Buttload O’ Months, 2014 wall calendar just turned the page into topless heaven. Who knew September could be so sexy? Plus Jux Leather who bestows upon me a fantastic new deerskin-leather riding crop (now a favorite with Kink.com) which makes a big, satisfying “thwack!” that sounds very painful but doesn’t hurt a bit, leaving a lovely pink blush to the thwacked skin without marking it.

We wind up the show with many mad boobalicious Bonoboville Communions, including yummy Maya giving it to Ms. Cybill. And then there’s the fist-humping, semen-pumping “Masturbation Superstar” of Bonoboville, Brad begging to masturbate on air for the Dommes who tell him that he isn’t allowed to ejaculate until the end of the show at which point, he must eat his own cum. Welcome to the jizz biz, Brad. So… how’s it taste?

After the live broadcast, we wander over to the Bonoboville Commissary for another kitchen table sex party that has succulent Vicky sucking and being sucked. The climax cums literally as Sagi slurps at her clit and stimulates her G-spot while I lightly but loudly whack her big beautiful boobs with my new Jux Leather crop, at which point her fabulous fountain of Holy Water baptizes Sagi’s face, the floor and the surrounding crowd.

Squirt for peace, Brothers and Sisters! Emulate the gentle female domination of the bonobos. Don’t hate! Participate! And practice The Bonobo Way (coming very soon as a book!) of peace through pleasure… with a little consensual pain.