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  1. Kate
    07 · 21 · 10 @ 6:22 am

    With a twinkle in my eye and a big smile on my face I write and say “Dr. Susan you hit that nail on the perverbial head!” Phone sex therapy is a wonderful thing. Before joining Dr. Susan as one of her phone sex therapists I would occasionally engage in a “call” with a friend over the years. It was my naughty little secret. I loved the thrill it gave me and the naughty feeling of doing something considered taboo. Truth be told I never thought I was doing anything wrong. It was society ( like that Leeza Gibbons etc.) that makes it wrong. Anyways…fast forward to my moving to the City of Angels and my meeting first the amazing Kim Mendoza, then the rest of the team and of course Dr. Susan last December I am very happy to be part of this. I love the creativity, openess and the revealing of what is going on inside not only my client’s mind sexually but mine also. Together we get to explore those horizons and experience incredible pleasure. Even have a nice conversation too. I am proud to say that I have a few regulars that I have a great relationship with. I tingle with pleasure when I hear a regular is asking for me. I also love the first time with a new client. They are like a wonderful present I get to unwrap….and I am their present too!! MMMM….I am wishing now for that phone to ring….

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  2. William Patrick Haines
    07 · 21 · 10 @ 6:22 am

    I am a client, and Dr. Block has given me an opportunity not to discuss not just sexual topics, but politics, culture, family, philosophy, astronomy, soup to nuts. Some of my sexual conversations are admittedly nutty. Well, being raised Roman Catholic in itself usually causes great need of therapy. Talking to Dr. Block, I can pretend to be a lot more free than I usually am. Yes, I have certain areas that I am obsessed with, like extra solar planets. I also like to dress up a bit for the occasion of telephone therapy. That is, I wear things I ordinarily would not wear in public, but would love to, like leather pants. Although I might not agree with all of Dr. Block’s views, I feel that her philosophy of ethical hedoism is certainly a moral philosophy. Sometimes I feel it gets a bit too moral and naive, idealistic and unrealistic. The world is the way it is, not the way it is supposed be. You will always have people that vilify sex and glorify greed, oppression and violence. I certainly feel prostitution ought to be legal, but some Holy Roller will condemn that, while endorcing some the most vile acts of violence, greed and opression. Still, it is great to have someone like Dr. Block to talk to about these things.

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  3. Cyn
    07 · 21 · 10 @ 6:21 am

    When I first heard of phone sex, I was interested, yet confused. I wondered things like “What’s it like?” and “How can you just talk to someone like that without knowing them?”. I thought “I don’t know if I could EVER do that…But I did…and I loved it. I found out first hand what it was like, and just exactly HOW one could commit such a thing; I loved it. The anonymity was so damn sexy, and the fact that it felt so dirty but right, so wrong but sexy made it unbelievably addicting. I feel very fortunate to have been introduced to this arousing little secret by the great Dr. Susan Herself along with the most erotic curator I’ve ever met. These women handled the clients like they were good friends and harmless. So as you can imagine I could only resolve that the act itself was completely harmless. Along with their support and encouragement, I took my first call. Like a sort of improv show, I went at it. Talk about my John and also about myself. Before I know it, it was a few hours later, and I felt myself wondering “Have I said too much?”. I had made a new friend, not only in a sexual way, but in an informative and personal way. I learned so much from one call, that I couldn’t turn back. After a few calls, I found myself with regulars and favorites. I also found that there was almost NO subject that was taboo for me; I thought I was helping the callers, but in reality, we were helping eachother. GO figure. People assume that someone who might be calling for phone sex or “therapy” as I consider it, would be a “sicko” or “perv” but what does that make me? But it just makes you wonder what might be going through that same persons mind. Also it brings to mind what these callers can do for you. I found myself lost in fantasy, touching and rubbing myself. The first REAL clitoral orgasm I had was experienced via my vibrator and one of my regulars. It was so unreal and unexected, but I loved it. I realized then that these John’s were helping me in the same and different ways as I was helping them. I really began to find myself sexually. There were times when I couldn’t get “wet” or couldn’t FEEL aroused. I no longer have either of those issues. All my questions were answered…All my fantasies found inside myself…All of my sexiness brought to life, and all of my confidence brought forth. My views have obviously changed on the subject of “phone sex” and presumably with good reason. It became so easy, and fun, and normal to me that I couldn’t imagine not being able to express myself in many ways. The experiences have opened my mind in many ways and have also helped my sexuality in such ways that it has significantly helped me in my relationship. I can now do things I wouldn’t imagine doing before, without feeling awkward or self conscious. I adore my John’s and am always willing to meet new exciting and excited people. What’s your story?

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  4. Mistress Crystal
    07 · 21 · 10 @ 6:21 am

    I Was a Shameless Phone Slut© 1998, 2006 by Mistress Crystal(Originally published in webzine Postfeminist Playground in February, 1998)Old hookers never die, they just… start doing phone sex. For that matter, young hookers do phone sex. And people who have never gone to bed with another person for money do phone sex. Anybody can do phone sex as long as they sound good and have a fertile imagination. It’s one of the great jobs in the sex industry because it’s perfectly legal and it’s risk-free. Mind you, the money is not as good as prostitution. Most hookers average between $50 and $250 per date, and unless you have a heinous drug habit or live in some place like Tiburon (or both), you can support yourself quite nicely on just a date or two per day. On the other hand, most phone workers only make in the neighborhood of five to ten bucks per call. Of course, a popular girl with a sexy voice who works for more than one agency can pull in a couple hundred on a real good day, but that is a lot of time on the phone. One of the important differences between phone sex and prostitution is the requirements for success with the job. Obviously, in full-contact hooking the younger and prettier girls will be more popular with the guys. However, the woman working the phone is not judged by her appearance. Indeed, she can be an unwashed three hundred pound acne victim in her midforties with toxic halitosis and none of that matters to the customer as long as she sounds like a knockout. It also helps a lot if she has a versatile and filthy mind. Working conditions are great, too. The fact that most agencies allow you to take calls at home means that you can lie around in your underwear and hook bonbons down your throat as you flip channels on the cable box if that is your inclination. You can also study for your midterms, read, do housework or, for that matter, churn out an article for the internet. And, a big plus for many people, you don’t have to go to bed with strangers. Let’s face it, in an age of concern about safe sex and with the local crackdowns on prostitution, phone sex is a viable alternative for both sex workers and clients. There are many advantages for both sellers and buyers in this form of pleasure-for-money. You’re not in violation of any laws. You’re not in danger of contracting any disease, of being assaulted or robbed, or of being photographed in the act. Hell, you don’t even have to leave the comfort and security of your own bedroom. Furthermore, if you work for an agency you are isolated from the clients so that they never know your phone number. And while there is the missing element of person-to-person contact, that is not always a bad thing, especially from the sexworker point of view. I got started when I saw an ad in the back of a local weekly paper. It said “Sexy Voices — Phone Fantasy Makers earn $$$ in your spare time at home.” Intrigued, I gave them a call. The phone was answered by a sweet, young-sounding woman to whom I related my history of sex work. I have a prodigious resume, I must admit. As a hooker who ran her first sex ad in January of ’86, I have talked with more horny men on the phone than most women ever will. But—most of these guys never came. At least, they never came over to my place. Guy after guy made a date with me—swore they were on their way over—and most of them never showed up. After a few weeks of talking to several dozen guys a day and hearing a few of them possibly flogging their lizards, I began to have a sneaking suspicion that most of my callers were masturbating to the sound of my voice. I’ll never forget the call when I finally knew for sure that these guys were just using me: the guy practically came in my ear! I finally understood what had been going on: these guys had been pud-pounding to the sound of my voice as I described what I looked like or what I would do to them . That guy had been the first one blatant enough to get off while I talked to him, or at least loud enough for me to hear it. And I realized he had really done me a favor. I began to be more careful and selective when talking with these guys, and I eventually started doing phone sex as well as hooking. On the basis of that experience, the agency decided I was more than qualified and they hired me. Since then, three months ago, I have been taking several calls a week. (If I weren’t so busy most evenings I’d be taking a lot more calls.) I have clients all over the country—just about every kind of guy imaginable. Just like hooking! And we talk about all kinds of sex, from the vanilla to the kinky. The ease of the call depends directly on the guy. Sometimes they do the equivalent of just lying there, like they’re waiting for it to be over, without participating in the call. Ten minutes seems like an hour with one of these duds. The good ones are the those who get into it, who know their own fantasies, who are not afraid to talk about them, and who help lead me through it all. Generally I’ll ask some thing like “What do you fantasize about?” or “What gets you off?” to get the guy started. From that point the call can go in two directions. Either he can tell me something like “I’m wearing lingeree right now and I want to be your little girl” which gives me plenty of material to work with, or he’ll say “Oh, I don’t know. I’ve never done this before” and that leaves me cold. What the fuck am I supposed to do with that? The real problem with the second caller is that without any fantasy “parameters” I don’t know what his limits are. This forces me to walk a thin line between bland sex that wouldn’t even get a Catholic priest hot (and certainly not my caller) and kinky stuff that would embarrass perhaps even sex educator Carol Queen. I work hard for fifty cents a minute! My pay is determined by the amount of time I spend on the phone. I make a fixed amount for the “base” call of five, ten or fifteen minutes, plus 45 cents a minute for overtime. I also get an additional dollar when I’m requested by name and another dollar for taking a call after midnight. This works out to an average of five bucks a call, which usually lasts about ten minutes. That’s not bad if I’m going to be home anyway, doing other productive things. Like writing this, for instance. Unfortunately, this money is not tax-free, at least not at the agency I work for. They have my social security number that they verified with my other ID, and I have not one scrap of doubt that they’ll file a 1099 form on me in January, reporting my gross income to the IRS. This aspect lends even more “legitimacy” to the profession of phone sex. Not only is the job legal, but the income is safely declarable. Now all I need is my own business card. Why not?The best part is that I don’t need to get ready for a client. I don’t have to do my hair, put on makeup, or even get dressed for that matter. No strangers come over to my home, and I don’t go to some house an hour’s drive away where I might find a flake of major proportions. And, once again, I never have to worry about my safety. And, trust me, I have had concerns about that in the past. All in all I like my new part time job. It’s convenient, the money is worth my effort, and it can be fun sometimes. I would recommend doing phone sex to anyone who spends a fair amount of time near a phone and who wants to make some extra money. The most important elements are a sexy sounding voice and an active imagination. And if you can learn to give good phone, you too can make a tidy sum in your spare time. Mistress Crystalhttp://www.la-crystal.com

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  5. I remember when......
    07 · 21 · 10 @ 6:21 am

    I was 15 when I was de-virginized into the highly erotic world of phone sex. I was a late bloomer so I hadn’t yet played with guys. He was an “older” guy in his mid thirties. I met him on a chat line and spoke to him periodically for about a year. He was a mysterious character because he’d only sometimes pick up the phone. He was married or living with someone obviously, but I didn’t care. His voice and the sound of him breathing filled my ears. At that time I didn’t have much experience in masturbation. It was him who taught me about my clit, and if I rubbed it a certain way that it would take me to a place that I’d never been before. I bought my first dildo because of him. I remember putting a banana inside of myself while I was talking to him. I peeled it first, and then wondered why it turned to a mushy juicy mess. How was I supposed to know? Mostly I talked to him in the afternoons when everyone in the house was gone. I had the freedom then to moan and groan freely, which was often. I wasn’t quite as loud then as I am now but then again in those days my pussy didn’t squirt when I came, either. At that point, I’d never seen nor hear a man cum. It was with him, and it was over the phone, that I got to experience the intense pleasure of listening to a guy stroking his cock while he listened to me playing with my pussy. Like I said, we kept this up for about a year. Then one week I tried several times to reach him. He never picked up again. I wish I could remember his voice.Over the years, since then, I’ve enjoyed talking to men on the phone, sometimes masturbating with them, sometimes not. Their stories; what they get off on and why, is what I really dig. What thrills me the most though, is to hear the excitement build and to know that they are going to orgasm and I’m going to get to listen to it. I’ve been having phone sex for my pleasure for years. Now I’m a sex therapist. I’ll talk to you about your desires or your fears. Maybe you just want to hear me playing with myself. I know you have at least one or two nasty secrets to share. Or, maybe you just want to tell me a story. Either way, my pussy will be wet and I’ll have come full circle.I’m Melanie, ask for me.

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  6. Little Shiva
    07 · 21 · 10 @ 6:21 am

    Phone sex is fun. My favorite phone sexer is Michele Capozzi, who once called me in the States from Italy for it. I let my tranny wife Jenn in on it too: who knew you could have a phone sex threesome?

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  7. Carlo Filangieri
    07 · 21 · 10 @ 6:20 am

    As one of your clients I can attest to the power of the telephone. You’ve always comforted me, especially when I was alone for a for a couple of years, you’ve helped me explore areas of my sexuality that were buried deep, and you have helped me when I was feeling down. But most of all, I thank you for introducing me to the smartest and most beautiful woman I have ever met.No, this is not a paid endorsement, in fact I’m the one that has to pay for the calls but it’s all worth it, Dr. Suzy :)With Love,Carlo

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