Kink Month 2: The Arts of FemDom Politics & Pain
Length 1:36:14 Date: October 8, 2016
On the 8th night of Kink Month in Bonoboville, we up the ante in the art of pain with kinky artist/dominas Sheree Rose and Rhiannon Aarons and dazzling pro-domme Mistress Porcelain Midnight. It’s a FemDom fiesta of Bonobo Way book–spankings, boobalicious Bonoboville Communion, hot medical play talk, sadism, masochism, domination, submission, erotic politics and performance art. It’s also a female-empowered response to Trump’s latest dump that’s set off a stink bomb in an already noxious election season with this pumpkin-headed man-baby’s pride in nonconsensually groping women “like a magnet…I don’t even wait… I just… grab ‘em by the pussy.”
Blech! And ouch. Just the thought of Trump’s tiny hands grabbing an unwilling vulva like a rat snatching somebody’s sandwich makes folks on both sides of the aisle want to vomit. Calling it “locker room talk” insults locker rooms. Not only does it brag about disgusting, borderline criminal behavior, it—along with Trump’s diehard supporters—represents the desperate, dangerous and, yes, “deplorable” backlash to pro-sex feminism. It’s as if he’s saying, “If you ladies want to enjoy sex and look hot, then alpha assholes like me will assault you.” Taking it to the next level, I can just imagine Trump’s veep, the sanctimonious Mike Pence, using this gross gaffe as an excuse to take away women’s rights in the name of “protecting” our “virtue” from rabid gropers like his running mate.
A far superior response to Trumpishness (now synonymous with oafishness) is the FemDom movement, which is older and somewhat wiser than the Feminist movement, ancient as Mother Earth Herself, yet just now coming out from underground in an explosion of female-empowered erotic art and sheer sexual shamelessness. All of this is well-represented by my guests on this show, as well as recent revelations about the deeply FemDom culture of our close genetic cousins, the bonobos apes.
It’s a special treat to welcome renowned kinky performance artist Sheree Rose back to DrSuzy.Tv after almost 20 years. Our connection goes back even farther, to somewhere around 1987, when I produced “The Heart & Dagger Poetry Show” at Scott Kelman’s Pipeline Theater. One of the featured poets was the late great Bob Flanagan, Sheree’s partner, creative collaborator and beloved slave. I remember our publicity photo with all the poets smiling or brooding, as per their persona, except Bob who wore a ball gag. I’d never seen anyone in a ball gag before, but he made wearing one seem perfectly normal and fun. Plus, he was genuinely nice, much nicer than the other poets (no offense, guys!), maybe because of the ball gag, not to mention his ongoing battle with cystic fibrosis, the disease that doctors predicted would kill him in his teens, but strengthened him to be one of the twentieth century’s greatest masochistic performance artists.
Then about 10 years later, just after Bob passed away at age 40, Sheree made her first appearance on DrSuzy.Tv. It was kind of a strange show for me because my mother was in the studio audience that night. Mom, goddess bless her soul, was not very kinky, at least not to my knowledge. And Sheree showed some seriously kinky BDSM imagery of her incredible work with Bob. I guess I was nervous that Mom would either walk out or pass out but, to my pleasant surprise, she enjoyed the show. After all, Mom was an artist, and even though the kinkiest thing she ever painted was a reclining nude, she related to Sheree as a fellow artist. Who knows, maybe Mom had an interest in medical play. She certainly loved doctors.
Sheree the medical player/artist is active as ever, doing performance pieces from London to LA, connecting the dots between sex and art, pain and pleasure, poison and medicine, male submission and FemDom power. “Trump’s just the kind of guy who secretly craves being shit on,” she observes, also likening him to Bill Cosby.
Ms. Rhiannon Aarons
Sheree is accompanied by one of her current collaborators, kinky artist/FemDom Rhiannon Aarons. You may recall our great Presidential Debate between Female Supremacy Party candidate Mistress Tara Indiana and the artist Jeffrey Vallance which was, of course, much more fun, honest and informative than the Dollary Clump Debates. The showdown in Bonoboville was actually their second round, the first occurring spontaneously during Sheree and Rhiannon’s 24-hour art piece, “Philosophy in the Bedroom,” in which the two U.S. Presidential candidates got to live out their fantasy of debating each other while Rhiannon moderated.
Capt’n Max and I always enjoy meeting one of the grown-up “children we helped raise,” and we’re happy to be one of the forces that influenced Rhiannon to explore the wonderful world of erotic art and sexual healing. Among other projects, she and Sheree are launching a Hatchfund campaign for their “Book of Medicine.” Almost half-way through reading The Bonobo Way, Rhiannon is now a fan. She also takes a liking to my cucumber (left over from yesterday’s whirlwind shoot with Mel Magazine), placed provocatively between her bounteous 36Gs. More on them in a minute…
Ms. Porcelain Midnight
The fabulous FemDom sticks my cucumber between Rhiannon’s gorgeous gazangas, first giving the tip a seductive lick, is none other than Mistress Porcelain Midnight, dominant since she was a feisty seven-year-old ordering the neighbor boy to brush his teeth with sewer water.
Though she got punished for that by her Greek Orthodox church-going elders, she remembers relishing the power of making someone do something, and she knew she wanted more. She got much more, and now she is one of the top dominas in the board of directors of DomCon and in the world.
To celebrate Kink Month on her first appearance on DrSuzy.Tv, Ms. Porcelain is resplendent in shiny black and red latex, the perfect complement to her truly porcelain complexion, full crimson lips and menacingly studded military cap.
I ask her to model her outfit and high-heeled, lace-up boots as that addictively catchy, Bonobo Way-inspired ditty, “The Kinkster,” by Carmina Formosa, aka [ai], rings through the Womb Room. Modeling turns into boot-licking and then spanking Jacquie Blu, whose butt is already pretty blue from last Saturday’s Kink Month Kick-Off.
Mistress Porcelain gives Jacquie one of the most vigorous and creative Bonobo Way book–spankings given on DrSuzy.Tv (and that’s saying something!), using the paddle-like paperback in all sorts of stimulating and sadistic ways. Read it or get red by it!
Baruch Atah Bonoboville Communion
Of course, Kink Month wouldn’t be kinky without a round of Bonoboville Communion with sweet green Agwa di Bolivia Coca Leaf Liqueur. Though we only have time for one round, it’s a good one, featuring Sheree sucking the sacred salt from Rhiannon’s pendulous yet perky, all-natural mama titties. Yes, she’s a MILF, and Sheree is a one hell of a GILF.
Since we’re smack in the middle of the Jewish High Holidays, a kinky time of year with all that shofar-blowing and suffering for our sins on the “Day of Atonement,” I sing the Hebrew prayer as I sprinkle the salt religiously: “Baruch Atah Adonai Elohenu Melech Ha Titties…” Though we really don’t intend to offend (we’re just grappling with our religious indoctrinations and inhibitions), one blasphemy leads to another, and soon we’re honoring Christ as the ultimate masochist, bringing forth the Jesus Jackhammer Dildo, whereupon Rhiannon quips, “Why did Jesus die on the Cross?… He forgot his safe word.” Ba-da-boom.
Ikkor, Sarah & Capt’n Max
Into this FemDom playground steps hunky Ikkor the Wolf, free-styling his praises of the Goddess. “If I bled as much as you women do every month, I’d be dead,” he admits.
More erotic politics ensue with Sarah Bella’s personal Vote No on Prop 60 pitch and Capt’n Max holding forth on the importance of beating Trump (remember, vulgarities aside, the big difference between Hillary and the Donald is whom they would pick for the Supreme Court) and the Trump Bro mentality.
We also give another spanking hot salute to Kink Month and cheers to letting your kink flag fly (and that does not mean nonconsensual pussy-grabbing, Donnie), an aspect of releasing your inner bonobo, as well as supporting the candidates and policies that uphold your rights to do so.
© October 9, 2016. Susan Block, Ph.D., a.k.a. “Dr. Suzy,” is a world renowned LA sex therapist, author of The Bonobo Way: The Evolution of Peace through Pleasure and horny housewife, occasionally seen on HBO and other channels. For speaking engagements, call 310-568-0066.