DomCon & Sanctuary Headmistress Cyan birthday-spanks Dr. Suzy with The Bonobo Way under the Strawberry Moon. Photo: Ono Bo

Length 1:52:03 Date: June 18, 2016

by Dr. Susan Block

We had such a good time delivering “The Bonobo Way: A New FemDom Great Ape Paradigm for Humanity” to DomCon 2016, that we just had to have two DomCon afterparties on DrSuzy.Tv: last Saturday’s Female Supremacy Party presidential rally and now this Birthday Spanking Spectacular featuring a bevy of Dominas from our friendly neighborhood dungeon (ranked Best in LA by Time Out), Sanctuary Studios LAX. It’s the eve of the Strawberry Moon, aka the full June Moon or Honey Moon—which, for the first time in 70 years, coincides with the Summer Solstice—and these fabulous FemDoms spank several willing and wiggling butts until each is a glowing pink reflection of the Strawberry Moon in June.

Ono Bo, Goddess Genesis, Mistress Cyan, Dr. Susan Block, Mistress Tara Indiana, Serenity Smith, Jack Nice. Row 2: Jacquie Blu, Dayton Rains. Photo: L’Erotique

I open the show with a heartfelt salute to Bonobo Gay Pride, a tribute to the Orlando victims and a plea for more sex education (and I consider many FemDoms and other sex workers to be “sex educators,” in addition to my accredited AASECT colleagues), in order to better counteract homophobia, sexism and the deeply shaming effects of religious sexual abuse, so as to help more people who might be confused about their erotic desires to accept and manage them more peacefully.

First up on the broadcast bed is DomCon Headmistress, Sanctuary founder and award-winning BDSM community leader, Mistress Cyan, whom I’ve known for over a dozen years. In fact, almost exactly 12 short years ago, at my Birthday Bacchanal, Mistress Cyan gave me my first public birthday spanking, surrounded by Porn Klownz, one of whom sat in my cake while the others helped Her spank me, singing “Happy Birthday” as they spanked each other with poodle-shaped balloons and rubber chickens. Flash forward to last week 2016, when I celebrated my birthday in my birthday suit down in sunny San Juan (blog coming soon!), but was so busy having aquatic and orgasmic fun (plus delivering The Bonobo Way to AASECT) that I forgot to get my birthday spanking. So for old time’s sake and because Ms. Cyan is one of the best spankers in “the business,” I ask Her to give me my 2016 birthday spanking OTK with The Bonobo Way (afterwards, I signed that copy for Her). That’s “over-the-knee,” for those not in the know, one of the most intimate forms of spanking. Some spankings are painful, some are very kinky, featuring fantasy roleplay, and some are pure sensuous pleasure. This one is definitely a pleasure-spanking, and it’s better than a trip to the spa!

PHOTOS 1 & 2: ONO BO.  PHOTO 3: L’EROTIQUE. PHOTO 4: DAYTON RAINS

I can’t say that’s true of our first birthday spanking of the night, the consensual, trembling “victim” of which is my beloved Gemini “son” and bonobo brother, Jack Nice. While a Bonoboville resident, Jack met Sanctuary “switch” Serenity Smith (a hat tip to her for organizing the guests for this show), and now Serenity is Jack’s mistress, while he is her collared slave, and another great couple finds one another in Bonoboville. Yes indeed, come to The Dr. Susan Block Show and fall in love… or find a willing slave!

Jack is certainly willing. He even brags that, under Serenity’s tutelage, he has developed a rather “high threshold of pain.” That boast gets him stripped naked except for the collar, shackled to the cross and spanked hard by every FemDom in the Womb Room.

Sanctuary FemDoms line up to birthday-spank Jack Nice. Photo: Ono Bo

He also gets a few swift swats from Serenity’s cane, given with a slightly sadistic smile by Goddess Genesis in her first visit to Bonoboville. Genesis, Gen or “Genny” (as I like to call her) is Ms. Cyan’s fiancé and co-owner of Sanctuary. We talk about how a man helped her to realize she was kinky 15 years ago. As for Ms. Cyan, she recalls getting excited watching bondage scenes at the age of seven—no, not in porn, but in the Batman TV show that often featured somebody all tied up. Who knew those early mainstream-media-influenced erotic stirrings would lead to founding the largest FemDom convention in the world?

PHOTO 1: ONO BO.  PHOTO 2: SARAh BELLA.  PHOTO 3: L’EROTIQUE

As a reward for his submission, former altar boy Jack gets to indulge in Agwa-infused Bonoboville Communion with Dayton Rains—porn star, therapist and ass. producer for DrSuzy.Tv. Ms. Cyan, another lapsed Catholic (now Wiccan), enjoys observing our version of this Churchly ritual… aka “Bonoboville Waterboarding.”

Bonoboville Waterboarding with Agwa di Bolivia Coca Leaf Herbal Liqueur. Photo: Ono Bo

Into the spanking and waterboarding party step two of our featured guests from our first DomCon 2016 Afterparty show, Mistress Tara Indiana and Jacquie Blu. With leading “Female Supremacy Party” U.S. Presidential Candidate Tara to my left and Ms. Cyan to my right, two of LA’s and the world’s most powerful FemDoms, I feel as though I am flanked by bonobo sapien angels of female empowerment. Last time, U.S. Presidential Candidate Tara showed us how she will “beat Trump.” This time, she spares the electorate from having to look into his shifty beady eyes and thuggish tomato face, instead bringing the far more attractive and congenial Alexis (Yale ’90) with whom I later boola-boola (Eli form of hoka-hoka) at the Speakeasy bar.

PHOTOS 1 & 3: ONO BO.  PHOTOS 2 & 4: SARAH BELLA

Adorable Jacquie Blu also returns, strips off her dress, gets down on her hands and knees, arches her nimble back and eagerly submits to the Headmistress’ expert hand, paddle and The Bonobo Way. Trancing into “sub space” like a purring kitty, Jacquie twerks in time to Ms. Cyan’s spanks, much to the delight of the Bonoboville crowd.

Mistress Cyan spanks Dayton. Photo: Ono Bo

Ms. Cyan gets such rave spanking reviews that even the pain-averse Dayton gets down her knees and requests a light spanking from Her Silken-gloved hand. That gets her moaning and cooing like her little doggy Jaigi. Both spankings could have gone a lot longer, but we were well into overtime before we could say “Spanks for a great show!”

PHOTOS 2, 4 & 5: UNSCENE ABE

Other Weapons of Mass Discussion: RIP Charly B (a Sanctuary memorial will be forthcoming); Kudos to Ms. Cyan and Capt’n Max for beating cancer, at least for now, which is all any of us can ever do; happy to be on page 130 in the July 2016 of Cosmopolitan Magazine advising Cosmo Girls regarding how to “Ace Your Orals;” why it’s best to spank consenting adults and NOT helpless children; The meaning of “consent;” alcohol and BDSM; tickling therapy; spanking warm-ups (aka “tenderizing the meat”); Safe Words: FemDom bonobo sapien discipline for racist, sexist and/or “smart” remarks; DomCon Atlanta moving to New Orleans (!); Bonobos, bonobos, bonobos and the rising heat of another sure-to-be sizzling Bonobo Summer of Love in the magical, twinkling Garden of Bonoboville. Come join the erotic adventure!

Moon over Bonoboville. Photo: Unscene Abe

© June 19, 2016. Susan Block, Ph.D., a.k.a. “Dr. Suzy,” is a world renowned LA sex therapist, author of The Bonobo Way: The Evolution of Peace through Pleasure and horny housewife, occasionally seen on HBO and other channels. For speaking engagements, call 310-568-0066.