Elliot Rodger, 22, never learned to bond with Mother or anyone else. He was very likely never breastfed.
Many thanks for your sharing. The world-wide violence against women reflects the reality that we have lost our Humanity.
Keep up the good work.
Peace with Pleasure.
James W. Prescott, Ph.D.
BioBehavioral Systems
http://www.violence.de
http://montagunocircpetition.org
http://ttfuture.org/bonding/articlehttp://ttfuture.org/bonding/dvd_archive/overview
I for one and many others are repulsed by the death and violence that comes out of Hollywood. This is the lowest kind of human exploitation that one can imagine. I seriously doubt he went and killed because of his aversion and disgust with porn.
He killed in real life because he felt entitled to kill, he felt entitled to get laid, he felt entitled to have a BMW, he felt entitled to have a Rolex…he felt entitled to slaughter and he felt entitled to star in his own movie. And now perhaps his father will make a hit movie and everyone else will cash in on this tragedy.
]]>Thanks for your response, Alex. It’s so sad, though very understandable in today’s sex-phobic climate, that staff workers are frightened to even discuss sexual issues with people who could really use the help.
]]>I’m buried deep in the #YesAllWomen hashtag on twitter right this second.
]]>Joe Giambrone
The Political Film Blog
http://politicalfilm.wordpress.com/
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You saying this means so much to us.
It warms us inside.
It reminds me of Frank’s idea of getting people to go into institutional settings to touch and play and have sex with people confined to these settings. He had talked to several people about this over the years.
]]>Good Gaia, We have to transition from this toxic “white man’s world” reality to something akin to Bonoboville if we’re to end the race, age and gender insults (and violence.)
Best,
Michael
PS The Monkeys talked a lot about your Bonboboville and the ethics behind it over our Memorial Day weekend of trail work, hiking, music and play (I posted some photos to my FB page – tame ones). Pretty much everyone has read Sex at Dawn (and love it) and when I tell them a worthy follow-up is in the works – your book – they can’t wait.
]]>Or that the media now fosters the continuous flow of what Aaron Sorkin called “tragedy porn” providing these madmen with the posthumous fame they invariably imagine… while real porn (by far the largest segment of internet content) is hypocritically condemned to the point where bankers jerk off watching porn stars, but won’t allow them to open an account. One deposit certainly deserves another, right?
Very thoughtful show, Dr. Suzy and Max. Thank you.
]]>You rock Cesar!
]]>They were forever loving and yet allowed me to be Massimo the curious little boy who rejected religion at a very early age and was supported by these unique guardians of little Massimo to think on my own.
They taught me a lot, but they taught me one special thing. They told me that I should always be nice to girls. They taught me to respect and appreciate women, their beauty and their strength.
I have never forgotten and I never use the word “bitch”.
Then there was my father who was very concerned with my sexual progress in life and he was the one that arranged my first sexual encounter with a beautiful German hotel chamber maid in Rothenberg Germany.
At fifteen I was working in the theater and traveling around with a Vaudeville troupe in Italy. During that period I had more sex then I’ve had the rest of my life–until I married you. I lived in a wonderful world of sex..a peaceful fun world.
So as you can see from the photo above not much has changed since I was a little boy in Naples Italy.
No we can’t stop the madness in the world but we can stop the madness in our own world. We can look at our world in a more respectful and peaceful manner. We can touch each other with a gentle hand and change everything around us, and from us, the world will perhaps learn there is another way.
We make peace or we make war. Our choice.
Max
your husband